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March 18th, 2010, 11:48 AM
DukesMommy12's Avatar Steph
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So I was due the 16th.
Took preg tests all negative

Then I wiped and got red blood. And some minor cramping.

Told hubs that its my period.
But its not normal.
When I pee there isnt any blood.
Its just wiping.
And on the pad theres just a little bit of brown blood.

So IDK, maybe its just the effects of the miscarriage (had a m/c in december)
but it doesnt feel like a real period.

What do you all think?

Please be blunt, if you think Im holding onto hope for now reason let me know please!
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March 18th, 2010, 11:54 AM
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My periods always start with light spotting when I wipe, and the real cramps don't start until the heavy flow starts. If that's not normal for you, though, just keep an eye on it for a few days. Know that it is likely to turn into AF, and that maybe she is a little weird this month because you are still getting back to normal after your loss. If AF doesn't start in full force in a few days, take another test. Spotting can happen in early pg, too.

I hope you can find some peace with whatever happens.
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March 18th, 2010, 12:07 PM
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Oh HUN... HUGS... It has only been two months since your loss... It can take some women up to a year for thier body to return to some kind of normal... I know after my d/c it took 5 months for my body to JUST start to feel normal.. Than after my third loss... I had so many pregnancy syptoms..... that were my new "Normal" pre menstural signs... Sore bbs like I had never had before, constipation, and so many others.. I swore I was pregnant if I went by the syptoms.. I wish this was cut and dry... but that is part of the TTCAL journey.... and it sucks. If you are getting negative HPT's.... either A you are not pregnant... or B it is still to early.. If you are starting to spot.. I would think.. this is just AF starting to show.. I would give it a few days... if you don't have any more bleeding than test again.. HUGS..
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March 18th, 2010, 12:17 PM
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Hi Nicole,

I would suppose it is pre-AF spotting and if she doesn't fully show in a few days then perhaps test again. My AF's were like that as well, she would "let me know" she was coming a couple days in advance with some spotting pink or even a light tannish.

I'm sorry Nicole that AF has been so wonky and is teasing you right now... but no, holding onto a hope isn't a bad thing it's what keeps us going! So hold onto hope and don't give up, like I said before if she doesn't show in a few days then test again ya never know stranger things have happened!
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March 18th, 2010, 02:34 PM
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That is pretty much how AF started for me this cycle.
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March 18th, 2010, 02:53 PM
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i am currently going thru the same exact thing you are and it is my af starting.

not saying that this is true for you tho! i agree with the pp's. just wait a few days. if still no real af then test again - you just never can tell with these things
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March 18th, 2010, 02:58 PM
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Update*

Bleeding has almost completely stopped
Now its just brownish discharge
and pinkish when I wipe.
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