Just got back from the er....Update Post 1

sweetgirl51305 · #1 March 21st, 2010, 05:40 PM

Well I was in excruciating pain around 11 today. And still bleeding (my 4th day bleeding brown and red). The pain was mainly on my right side on my front and back which concerned me. And I couldn't get comfy, so I decided to go to the er. They did bloodwork and my betas dropped. They were 366 on Thursday and today they were in the 200's. They did the u/s and the tech said there was no baby in the uterus and I had a cyst on my right ovary and something else suspicious, but she wouldn't say or let me see. Dr said it's an ectopic. They (er dr and ob dr) said that since I wasn't too far along and it didn't rupture, they were fine with sending me home. So they gave me pain med (loratab I think) and said to go see my ob 1st thing in the morning. They said they'd either give me med to dissolve the pg or surgery. So I guess I'll find out tomorrow. I'm fine with it so far. Dh and mom and family is upset, but I guess it just hasn't hit me yet. I cried earlier, mainly 'cuz I was in pain, but I think it'll hit me later. Ty guys for all the thoughts and prayers. It means a lot to me. I'll keep yall updated with what the dr says in the morning.

UPDATE*** Just got home from the dr a little bit ago. Well, the dr is not convinced that it's ectopic. He said that with how far a long I am and my beta #'s it wouldn't have shown up on the u/s. He said that since my levels dropped that I'm probably just m/c. I've gotta go get my betas done again tomorrow to see where they're at and go back to see the dr. Thursday. I'm so confused 'cuz they were saying it was ectopic last night and now it's not. WTH?!?!? Anyway. That's not the least of my worry. My work is being a *****. They are giving me *** for being out. I told them I've got an excuse for 3 days and I'm on pain killers. I want to quit so bad for the way they are treating me (AGAIN! they did this last month too!) but dh said I need to find something else first. They have no compassion at all and are being very rude. And on top of it, it's starting to hit me now and I've been upset. I need to take time off. It's not fair. So I've been looking for jobs since I got back. I'll update again on Wed. with my beta #'s. Thank you for all the thoughts and prayers everyone.

martilynne · #2 March 21st, 2010, 06:56 PM

I am so sorry Lindsay

KAB · #3 March 21st, 2010, 07:16 PM

I'm so sorry, I hope you won't have to have surgery.

hollann1984 · #4 March 21st, 2010, 07:27 PM

im so sorry... you are in my thoughts

zkat · #5 March 21st, 2010, 07:32 PM

So sorry - thoughts and prayers to you

Natalie_Snow · #6 March 21st, 2010, 07:36 PM

I am so sorry Lindsay {HUGS} I hope you do not need surgery... hang in there!

jjc99 · #7 March 21st, 2010, 08:14 PM

So sorry. I'm thinking of you

tobi4 · #8 March 21st, 2010, 08:23 PM

Im so sorry you are going through this. My thoughts are with you tonight.

Celena · #9 March 21st, 2010, 10:11 PM

Lindsay

I'm so glad you did go to the ER, its not something to play around with!!! Take it easy as much as you can until your appointment tomorrow. I'm so very sorry you're going thru this honey!!! My heart goes out to you so much!

BeccaM · #10 March 22nd, 2010, 05:01 AM

Im so sorry Lindsay... You are in my thoughts.. Keep us posted on how you are doing...

lex1078 · #11 March 22nd, 2010, 05:07 AM

Lindsay, I'm soo soo sorry. I wish you a speedy and healthy recovery. I wish you didn't have to go through this.

EJsMommy · #12 March 22nd, 2010, 05:13 AM

Lindsay, I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I agree with Celena that you did the right thing by going to the ER as this is not something you play around with. Huge Hugs and keep us posted.

kmh_26 · #13 March 22nd, 2010, 06:49 AM

I'm so sorry. I've also had a previous ectopic pregnancy (in 2006), and I had medicine to dissolve the pregnancy. I still think of that little baby, and miss it. I'll be praying for you during the difficult time.

mommie2many · #14 March 22nd, 2010, 07:25 AM

Im so sorry (((hugs)))

brandimomof2 · #15 March 22nd, 2010, 07:50 AM

Oh I am so sorry you are going through this. You and your family will be in my prayers.

stephjp · #16 March 22nd, 2010, 08:27 AM

I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers for sure...hang in there girlie...

ldovey83 · #17 March 22nd, 2010, 09:30 AM

Lindsay I am so sorry you are going through this.. It is a good thing that you went to the ER.. Hopefully you can j ust get the medicine to desolve it and you don't have to go the surgery route.. When I had my poss eptopic I opted to get the methotrexate injections over the surgery.. Best of luck to you hun. Hang in there. Many hugs coming your way..