[OwensMommy25]

Hello everyone my Name is Sarah.

I found out I was pregnant January 9th, after only giving birth to my son on September 3rd. We were shocked but excited,.. we were more excited when we found out it was twins. Everything was going well, we went in for an ultrasound at 11weeks and there were no heartbeats, They saw genetic problems with the babies.

I had a D&C March 7th and I still haven't stopped bleeding. We are waiting to try again until June but this wait is going to be hard.

I feel empty, depressed, sore, tearful.... everyday, Please tell me this gets better.

I need somewhere where I don't feel so alone. I hope you ladies can help.

Thanks.

[ohnicole]

Hi, Sarah. I'm so sorry for your loss. I also had a D&C after a missed m/c, discovered at 12w, the baby had died at 9w. The recovery from a m/c is so hard, but you will get through it. I was a mess for the first month or two after my loss, and I felt like it would never get better. Eventually, though, you do get back to feeling more normal. It will get better with time. I'm glad you found this board for support. Hugs.

[ldovey83]

Hi I am sorry to hear about your losses.. Where as we hate to welcome new angel mommies you have come to the right place.. The women here are great... They have helped me tremendously.. It does take a while for you to not hurt anymore, but you can ask any one of us and we will all give the same answers pretty much.. Losses are rough on a person.. I really help that you can find the comfort and answers that you need hun.. HUGS and hang in there.

[dreamer10]

You have come to the right place. The ladies here are wonderful and they can all understand. Everyone here has sufferend a loss, some many. I myself have had 3 in a row and I can say that the pain never really goes away, but it does get easier with each day to cope and come to terms with it.

I am sooo sorry for the loss of your twins. How devastating that must be. Please try to keep your chin up, and keep talking. The ladies here are wonderful to listen and can understand....

[BeccaM]

Hi Sarah. Im am so sorry for your losses. I was very saddened when I saw your post on the Sept DDC. I was also a part of the Sept DDC.

The ladies here are wonderful and we are here for you. Things will get better with time. BIG HUGS!!

[Natalie_Snow]

Hi, Sarah

I am so sorry for your loss of twins. But you've come to the right place. Ladies here are great! I haven't found this much support anywhere else! People who haven't experienced losses usually cannot fully understand your feelings. I just had my second loss. I decided to wait till June/July before we TTCAL again.
Hang in there! {HUGS}

[jjc99]

I wish this board didn't have to exist, but since it does - Welcome. I am sorry for the loss of your twins.

the ladies on this board are amazing. We can be your shoulder to cry on, your cheerleaders, your voice of reason...anything you need, we can help!

[mafiamom]

sarah, i am so very sorry for the loss of your twins. my heart breaks for you.

while i wish noone had to go searching for a board like this, we ARE here and we welcome you with open arms and many shoulders used to tears! we will do everything we can to get your thru this sad time and cheer you on when it is time to try again.

huge hugs, hun~

[*Maddie&Jacobs*Mommy*]

I'm sorry for your losses! I was also a part of the Sept DDC but only for a short time. You have definitely come to the right place!

[*MomofO&Nat*]

Sarah,
I am so so sorry you are going through this. I just wanted to say I love this board, and it helped me sooo much when I had my m/c in September. These ladies are amazing, and I found that they understood what I was going through and feeling better than a lot of my friends did. I think you will find a lot of encouragement and support here. HUGS!!!

[martilynne]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your twins. You have found the right place to come for support. The ladies on this board are wonderful and have helped me so much. I hope your bleeding stops soon, I bled for 2 weeks after my d/c so hopefully yours will stop in the next few day...

[Celena]

Sarah first I want to welcome you to TTCAL and tell you how so extremely sorry I am that you're going thru this loss of your twins right now. It's one of the most difficult things to ever go thru in our lives... and so emotionally scarring as well. You have definitely come to the right place and we welcome you with open arms... as much as it pains me to see another lady joining because the common thread we share all means we've had a loss or multiple losses.

I'd like to share a link with you to our sub-forum up top that has allot of grieving, emotional support for ladies going thru losses as well as other information... these things I found helpful so I wanted to share them.

Pregnancy Loss & TTCAL Info Spot - JustMommies Message Boards

So glad you have come here and I hope that we can help you thru this very devastating time

[~Lynda~]

you have come to the right place. i'm so sorry for the loss of your twins!! hugs and more hugs!! i have had three separate losses. we all know the feelings of despair here!! so you have found the right place to be!!! hugs to you