[Kary♥RN]

Ladies...

Over the past few days I have more request for the Private Place than I have Since becoming host of this board. For people who only want to "lurk" at what was posted.

To have the password you must have been active on the board for 30 days and have 150 posts on our board.

The private place is for people who feel they need to post something they feel can not be posted on the main board.

Please only request the password if you have an issue that you feel can not be put on the main board. Since issues that are posted in the Private place can be of a very sensitive matter.

Thank You.

[Kary♥RN]

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[Celena]

Also, ladies... we've been, because of the sudden influx of password requests for the "The Private Place" are considering the amount of posts needed & length of time as a member of TTCAL both be upped in order to access it. There have been ladies who are not even a part of TTCAL requesting, big no no. We will automatically deny those

Right now the requirements are as follows: (meeting BOTH requirements)
1) You must be an active member of the TTC After Loss board for 30 days
2) You must also have 150 posts to access this board.
Now, you can PM either myself or Kary as to how to gain access... but refrain from doing so if you have not met BOTH requirements.

Also the NEW requirements may change to.... (meeting BOTH requirements)
1) Member must be an active member of TTCAL board for 60 days
2) Member must also have at least 300 posts to access the private forum


I apologize in advance, but the private place is just for that privacy for things that one does not want posted on the main board for fear of judgement, hurt feelings, misunderstanding, avoid drama and so on. It's also a place where generally members who have been here for a while, more than just a month.

We've never had any issues with the Private Place because it is a limited access forum for members that have been a part of this board for some time. Other boards have had issues with their private forums allot of times because the rules &/or limitations are not be adheared to. So, the hosts have to get the password changed. Some members have had their accounts suspended for abuse or drama making. However the integrety of our private place has been upheld as to the careful consideration of those given the password.

There is no offense as to being denied access until the requirements have met, that's just general rule for it. After you've met the requirements, then we will reassess and welcome you to the private forum... appreciate you very much for understanding ladies!

Again a BIG THANK YOU in advance... we have a very sensitive themed board, Trying To Conceive After Loss... a loss, a miscarriage, a pregnancy loss, stillbirth, preterm stillborn... all of which are so devastatingly painful. Emotions run high and sensitivity levels vary as we're each at a different stage of loss and trying. TTC in general is hard and add miscarriage to that can be a challenging, painful journey... can be exciting and wonderful as well... but we're all here together, lift each other up when needed, compassionate words and supportive friendships. We have an AWESOME board! Keep up the greatness ladies!


I also want to suggest that those who DO have access to the Private Place forum be selective as to what you post in there... sometimes if you share your fears or feelings with ladies on the main board you'll find that there are others that feel, have gone thru those same feelings! So it's ok, just a suggestion... some of us are more reserved about our feelings than others, but that is what this board is for. We have all shared a very intimate part of our lives, our greif from our losses and our losses period!

[Celena]

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