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March 28th, 2010, 07:25 PM
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Yesterday was prime time to BD, and DH said he was too tired and his back hurt He also said he didn't want a December baby anyway, but I'm quite sad. So, I guess my opportunity for a 2010 baby is out the window, I didn't know I would be so upset about it but now we'll never know if it could have been cause we didn't even try. My heart just aches for a baby, as I'm sure all of ours does. So now on to hoping for a spring baby.
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March 28th, 2010, 07:33 PM
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Hugs. I'm so sorry.
I would have strangled my husband if he'd have said that to me.
I'm so sorry again. Spring sounds like a fantastic time for a baby
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March 28th, 2010, 08:00 PM
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I'm so sorry . . . I don't think I've ever had dh deny dtd, but December is a busy month so you are probably better off. I completely know how you feel. I would love to be pg now regardless of the timing, but good things come to those who wait!
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March 28th, 2010, 08:48 PM
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Hugs. We also missed out on our last ovulation for a 2010 baby, and it is hard to deal with. I hope that your next cycle brings a BFP for you! Maybe patience will bring you good luck.
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March 28th, 2010, 09:01 PM
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I'm so sorry
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March 28th, 2010, 10:53 PM
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I am out myself since I am not even cleared yet so I know exactly what you mean. DH bday is Dec 31. It would have been neat for them to have the same bday. Although I think my edd would have been like Dec. 21 if we were able to try. The only possible way I would consider trying is if I am neg. tomorrow and I don't think I am.
I know how you feel though about wanting a baby so bad. I feel like I waited my turn patiently unlike some ppl I know and look where it got me.


Spring Baby will be better I am kind of hoping for a spring baby myself. Depending on how things go!
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Im sorry DH was not in the mood. A Spring baby would be nice though. Here's to baby dust and a spring baby!
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March 29th, 2010, 07:43 AM
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I am sorry {HUGS}

I am also out for 2010, just missed my O day and did not even want to try this cycle. Lets all hope for spring 2011 babies!!! I'm really hoping for a spring baby myself, I've even got a spring blinkie
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March 29th, 2010, 11:22 AM
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I am so sorry. I hope I get a december baby...... not to sound picky but December baby would be better, our immediate family has like 5-6 Birthdays in January. That includes me DH and my daughter. But if I am blessed with a January baby I will not complain!
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March 29th, 2010, 11:52 AM
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I'm sorry hun.. I know how that feels. DH did that to me too, and it makes you feel like you are wasting an egg cause you didn't even try.. Heck these days I get depressed no matter if I try or not.. I wish you the best hun and even if you bd the day before or 2 to 3 days before you could've still done the trick.
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March 29th, 2010, 12:00 PM
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I am so sorry. I hope I get a december baby...... not to sound picky but December baby would be better, our immediate family has like 5-6 Birthdays in January. That includes me DH and my daughter. But if I am blessed with a January baby I will not complain!
Same here..immediate family birthdays are crazy after December. I'd love a December baby just so the baby on share's his/her month with their daddy..DH's birthday is December 14th.

I have SIL & FIL's birthdays in January.
Nephew's birthday in January.

BIL's birthday in February.
Son #2's birthday in February.
Sister's birthday in February.

Mum's birthday in March.
SIL's birthday in March.
Son #3's birthday in March.

Prior to the loss I was hoping not to get pregnant and be due in Jan, Feb. or March. Now I don't care, don't care a single bit. Bring it on. I just want a due date already
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March 29th, 2010, 12:25 PM
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Thanks Ladies, I knew you all would understand. I'm still hoping most of you will catch that egg for December, but for those of us that missed it Spring is going to be great for us!! It just has to be
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