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April 1st, 2010, 04:58 AM
DukesMommy12's Avatar Steph
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I am really struggling with my last loss.

I feel like Im still pregnant.

And honestly Ive been reading up about decidual bleeding, which could cause hpt's to be negative.... So now I feel like theres a chance that Im still pregnant.

Espically because my last "period" was so abnormal. I feel really hopeful that I am pregnant.

But honestly I know Im setting myself up for a huge dissapointment...

So please someone, anyone, tell me Im foolish and I just need to focuse on this cycle..


It also doesnt help that I've been queasy and actually puked yesterday... Now Im thinking Im having morning sickness... Which in reality could of been anything...

Im just so sick of being pregnant, and then losing the child.. I really just want a miracle
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April 1st, 2010, 05:08 AM
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Stephanie, {{{Hugs}}}. Have you tested to see if you still are PG? If you have the symptoms either it might be that you still are PG or that the HcG levels have not dropped down far enough yet.
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April 1st, 2010, 05:51 AM
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{HUGS} I know how you feel! I had a m/c on March 11...and I still feel pregnant. I just have that feeling and it makes me struggle even more. My m/c was very abnormally short and light so I was hoping that maybe I'm still pregnant.
So I tested yesterday...and test is def BFN (. It broke my heart! i do not know what was I hoping for?? and you know what, even after I saw that BFN... I cannot believe it but I'm still hoping that I'm Pregnant .

So I cannot talk sense into you because I feel exactly the same way! So has your test shown BFN already? It's probably better to concentrate on this cycle and then if you're till PG.. surprise! Can you go see a doctor?
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April 1st, 2010, 06:04 AM
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I know the way you're feeling is like having salt poured in your wounds. I can identify though. I still feel weirdish after my recent suspected chemical loss and to add to that, my follicular phase temperatures are higher than they normally are. (but not as high as my usual post-O temps)

Blessings for this cycle for all of us.
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