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April 2nd, 2010, 03:47 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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This is honestly a place I never wanted to re-join, I didn't want to have to TTC ever again....I found out today that my baby is gone  ....It was still alive 10 days ago at my last appointment, and actually this past weekend I felt it's first movements, so I don't think it's been more than a few days...I'm just devestated...It hasn't even been 6 months since my baby girl was stillborn...I was in such a dark place for so long, and this baby gave me hope....I'm not sure if I want to TTC again, i'm not sure if I can go threw another loss...I also don't want these past 2 experiances to be my last, I don't think i'd ever have any closure...I asked my husband if he wanted to try again, or just be done, and he isn't sure yet....I probably won't know if this baby is a boy or a girl or why it died, and that's going to be even harder...It's just not fair, and I didn't think this was going to happen again
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April 2nd, 2010, 04:00 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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OMG! I'm so sorry. I can't believe this happened again. You are in my T&P's.
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April 2nd, 2010, 04:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry. i cannot believe this happened again  (( i am so sorry. {HUGS}
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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April 2nd, 2010, 04:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am very sorry (((HUGS))))
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April 2nd, 2010, 05:21 PM
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3 Princes & 1 Princess
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Location: PA
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I'm in tears for you. I can't find the right words....
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April 2nd, 2010, 05:32 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I'm so sorry. I just lost my second baby too and am having the same thoughts and situation as you are. My husband and I have tried for four years and only had two pregnancies that didn't work out. We are both so unsure whether it is worth trying again or just giving up. My heart is broken as well, I'm sorry I can't give you advice but I thought that maybe it was at least nice to know that you are not alone.
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April 2nd, 2010, 06:40 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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My heart was breaking for you before I even opened the thread. I will be thinking and prayer for you and your husband. I am so sorry and know we are here for you.
Kat.
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April 2nd, 2010, 08:24 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Texas
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 I'm so sorry
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April 2nd, 2010, 08:27 PM
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Waiting for my turn.
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Location: Ont Canada
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Im so very sorry. Your are in my Thoughts & Prayers.
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April 2nd, 2010, 09:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry you are going through this.... I wish I could take all your pain away.. going through one loss is so hard... no should ever feel that pain.. when you have multiple.. it is just so unamaginable how much pain you can be in... I am so sorry.. HUGS
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April 3rd, 2010, 08:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so very sorry! Hugs!
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April 3rd, 2010, 01:55 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Isabelle
I'm in tears for you. I can't find the right words....
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This is how I feel..I am just so very sorry for your losses. You are in my thoughts and prayers!!!!
Katie
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April 3rd, 2010, 03:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Utah
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My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry...so so sorry. Please know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers.
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April 3rd, 2010, 03:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Pennsylvania
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Hugs I am so sorry your having to rejoin us again!
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April 3rd, 2010, 05:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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April 3rd, 2010, 06:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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there are no words.... i am so sorry. my heart is breaking.
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April 3rd, 2010, 07:38 PM
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Just Rachel
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I am so sorry! ((hugs)) That is just so not fair!
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