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April 6th, 2010, 07:00 AM
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They are only 17. I'm not even late for my period yet, it would have arrived. The DR's office just called and went over how they think it should be 200 by now. Does this make sense? I haven't even missed my P yet. I'm technically only 3 weeks 6 days. They are concerned about ectopic. I'm just going to keep thinking positive and that my numbers will go up when i go back tomorrow. GRRRR.....there has got to be good news, i can't go thru this a 5th time.
******not good news here. My numbers were 17 on monday and today they are 16, so it's inevitable. I'm just waiting to start to bleed. I'm so angry right now. 5 times now, this is rediculous.
On to next month, I'm going to start clomid with the hopes that if i release multiple egg, then maybe one will be healthy. I can't wait to go home today, so that I can just cry.
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April 6th, 2010, 07:04 AM
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oh no, I hope your number go UP!!!!!   your way!!!
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April 6th, 2010, 07:19 AM
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Hugs! I wouldn't be too worried about your first number. Did they draw again? As long as your numbers are doubling then I wouldn't worry hun! Hugs!
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April 6th, 2010, 07:27 AM
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Shortcake, i'm going back tomorrow morning to have them drawn again. She said that if I go before 9 they should have the results by noon. I'm keeping positive.
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April 6th, 2010, 07:36 AM
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KUP hun! I will be praying for you and your bean. I know its hards to think positive after all you've been through but I'm keeping everything crossed that this is your sticky bean!
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April 6th, 2010, 07:36 AM
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I really hope you get good news tomorrow morning. Maybe you implanted late so the numbers just haven't caught up yet. As long as it doubles, you should be okay. I'll be thinking of you!!
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April 6th, 2010, 07:58 AM
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Thinking of you sweetie.
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April 6th, 2010, 08:04 AM
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I'm thinking of you today. I hope your numbers double!!
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April 6th, 2010, 08:43 AM
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Didn't you say it was a reallllly light positive? I am praying it was later implanter and that your #'s double!
As far as the 200 #...are they going my your LMP and not your O day? If you have not even missed your period I would think that # could be JUST fine.
Praying you get great numbers tomorrow!!! Stick baby stick!
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April 6th, 2010, 08:53 AM
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Praying for you that your numbers double the way they are supposed to!
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April 6th, 2010, 10:06 AM
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I think this is way too early to be talking ectopic...your body hasn't even had the chance to do what it is supposed to. I would not panic until you have some real evidence and answers.....good luck and I will be praying for you!
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April 6th, 2010, 11:12 AM
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Think of it like this:
You haven't missed AF yet and the old 5 days sooner FRER detects hcg at level 25 or something like that. But it is only 99% accurate the day *of* a missed period. So based on that, and I'm no expert, but it seems like as long as you're close to 25 the day of the missed period then you're cool.
I'm sorry they have scared you like this. You don't need this. Blessings!
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April 6th, 2010, 11:58 AM
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OK lets look at this... At 3 weeks 2 days... My HCG was 57.20 (With a twin birth).... At 3weeks 6 days My HCG was 239.21 WITH TWINS! I don't know why they would say you should be 200......
Since if you implanted later your number will be lower.. You just have to remember it is not the initial number... but the doubling time... I wouldn't be to concerned yet Lets get that second number!!!
I can't wait to hear your GREAT NUMBERS tomorrow!!!!
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April 6th, 2010, 02:48 PM
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Thanks ladies, i'm so tired of this roller coaster, i actually thought to myself today, that's it, i'm done. But then i thought about not having a baby in my harms, and i knew, even if this is not the one, i'm still going to try.
Hoping i don't have to try anymore. 
Keeping my fingers crossed for tomorrow. Thanks for all of your supportive words.
Tomorrow is the day my P is supposed to get here so I think it would be the perfect day to find out that my numbers have gone up.
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April 6th, 2010, 03:35 PM
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I've got my fingers crossed for you! I hope you get great results tomorrow!
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April 6th, 2010, 09:08 PM
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:hugs: I'm praying for you too.... you need to hang in there lady and don't let the numbers stress you so much right now. You're VERY VERY early and numbers are real big at this point. KUP when you get them!
GIANT HUGS!!!!
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April 7th, 2010, 07:21 AM
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Thinking of you today. KUP on your results! HUGS!
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April 7th, 2010, 07:30 AM
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Thanks ladies, I went in this AM for my second Betas, they said the results should be in by noon. I work for the same health care system so you know i have been looking at my medical record every 10 minutes... i think i will know before they do.
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April 7th, 2010, 07:42 AM
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KUP hun! Praying your numbers doubled! Hugs! I know the wait is horrible.
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April 7th, 2010, 07:54 AM
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I'm thinking of you today, I hope you get awesome results!
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