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April 6th, 2010, 07:37 AM
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My OB just called to confirm that my Betas are now in the negative range and to let me know about the final pathology report.

Our baby had triploidy which somehow brings me comfort. Nothing would have changed the outcome, it was just a case of when. Poor little thing had it's fate decided from the moment of conception.
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April 6th, 2010, 07:43 AM
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oh Im so sorry for your loss
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April 6th, 2010, 07:43 AM
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I'm glad this news brings you some comfort. We need all the comfort we can get when you have lost a little one.
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April 6th, 2010, 07:47 AM
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April 6th, 2010, 07:57 AM
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So sorry.
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April 6th, 2010, 08:45 AM
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So sorry for your loss....but I am glad this brings you some level of comfort!

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April 6th, 2010, 09:06 AM
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When I found out at 14.5 weeks that our baby girl had trisomy 18 someone told me that her fate was already decided, I just needed to make the decision of when...sometimes m/c is a blessing...
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April 6th, 2010, 09:37 AM
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April 6th, 2010, 10:03 AM
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I am so sorry...at least you have answers. I think it helps the healing process...
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April 6th, 2010, 11:25 AM
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April 6th, 2010, 11:29 AM
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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April 6th, 2010, 12:18 PM
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HUGS... My 2nd loss, my little girl had trisomny 22. It is always hard to loss a baby, I am so sorry
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April 6th, 2010, 06:04 PM
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I understand how it brings you some comfort. Now you know it wasnt caused by anything you did, or should have been doing or this or that or any of the hundred and one things that our brains come up with when we try to find some sort of reason for the loss. ~~hugs~~ (April Cycle buddy )
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April 6th, 2010, 06:11 PM
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I understand how it brings you some comfort. Now you know it wasnt caused by anything you did, or should have been doing or this or that or any of the hundred and one things that our brains come up with when we try to find some sort of reason for the loss. ~~hugs~~ (April Cycle buddy )
Exactly. Now I know there's nothing I could have done differently to change the outcome. As much as you keep telling yourself it, it's nice to have the OB say it and know that's the real reason.
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