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April 11th, 2010, 02:59 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Came in to work today, and during briefing it was announced that 3 women I work with are pregnant, and all 3 were 'accidents'. My heart sank and I had a lump so big in my throat that I couldn't even talk. Then one lady turns to me and says, "ok, when are you finally going to have kids?" I couldn't open my mouth because I knew if I did I would just cry, so I politely smiled and they continued talking. Now, I'm stuck at work for the next 10 hrs and I just wanna go home so I can cry. It's taking everything in me to hold my composure, it's just not fair. I know that we all must deal with this, how do you handle it?
I need chocolate 
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April 11th, 2010, 03:53 PM
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Steph
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Aw honey, Im so so sorry!!! :/
I know it sucks so bad,
just focus on the fact that one day
youll have a beautiful baby and a
beautiful pregnancy of your own.
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April 11th, 2010, 04:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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HUGS... I wish I had the magic answer for you... but it is hard, HUGS...
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April 11th, 2010, 05:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS I am sorry. it is so hard to deal with 
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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April 11th, 2010, 05:48 PM
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Veteran
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I cannot imagine what you are going through. So sorry....HUGS
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April 11th, 2010, 05:49 PM
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3 Princes & 1 Princess
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I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Huge hugs to you sweetie.
xxx
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April 11th, 2010, 05:56 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thank you ladies, you are all so kind and supportive. I didn't know that news like that would hit me so hard.
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April 11th, 2010, 07:31 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It does hit hard and it hurts a lot... We want it to be us, we want to stop hurting... we want what seems to come so easily (or on accident) to others. I understand. I had to deal with co-workers pregnancies and one that ended up having a baby 1 week before my due date. I wish I could say the pain goes away... It does get easier but as they keep talking about their pregnancies expect it to sting now and again. Maybe you could tell them about your losses? Tell them you are not looking for sympthay but it may get through to them that it does hurt you and when you do cry they will at least try to understand. ((Hugs))
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April 11th, 2010, 09:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: California
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OMG!!! Another one just came in and announced that she too is pregnant! There are only about 25 people that work here and seemingly all of them are going to have babies but me. I can't handle this, I think I wanna quit my job.
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April 11th, 2010, 09:27 PM
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Just wanted to come in and give you a huge hug & loads of support. Such a difficult time to go through. P
lease don't quit your job just yet. You are going through an emotionally challenging time atm, please vent to us & we will help you through it. When all the hype with the announcements clam down, then think about quitting your job - you mind will be alot clearer then. x
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April 12th, 2010, 10:56 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry.... ((Hugs))
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April 12th, 2010, 02:50 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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that would set me off too...everyone is either preg or has a newborn at my dh's office too.....its heartbreaking
*hugs*
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April 12th, 2010, 08:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry... I don't handle those situations very well... I usually just leave or stop talking altogether. It is heartbreaking. Hugs.
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April 12th, 2010, 08:49 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm feeling better today....I think.....it's just hard because they don't understand why I am sad and not joining in the conversations. I just hope I get my BFP really soon so that I don't have to go through watching them grow big bellies and get excited for the next 9 months while I sit in the corner and cry.
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