[~*sierra*~]

Hi all, i thought i would come over and see what you ladies are up to over here. I am on my second miscarriage right now, out of two times that i've been pregnant, it's quite a drag. we only started ttc last october, and i got pregnant the first month we used the instead cup, and also used it to concieve this pregnancy that i'm m/c'ing now.

i just feel like i need to relate to people who have been through it...it just sucks so bad! oh yeah my name is sarah and i'm 27.

i'm sorry to be debbie downer but i am hoping you understand.....

[Celena]

Sarah, you're far from a debbie downer so get that out of your head RIGHT NOW! Going thru a miscarriage, pregnancy loss, stillbirth, preterm loss are all very painful, devastating experiences... don't be hard on yourself and don't let others tell you that you shouldn't greive either.

BTW, to TTCAL... I'm Celena, one of your co-hosts and DH & I have been TTC for a little over 2 years now with 3 losses in the last 9 months.

You're going to find the ladies here on TTCAL on JM are magnificent... they're so sweet, supportive, friendly, funny & FANTASTIC! Hope that you find everyone to be so helpful here and comfort knowing that we all understand what you're going thru. Again welcome honey!

[Kary♥RN]

Sarah.... I am so sorry for your losses.. HUGS. What you are going through is so hard.. no one should have to go through this once.. let along more than that... HUGS.

I'm Kary the other co-host with Celena.. Dh and I have had three losses.

HUGS

[~*sierra*~]

thanks for the warm welcome

i am still wierded out by how much i need to grieve about my losses......i was thinking back on my first loss the other day before i lost this one and i realized i really did grieve as though someone had died. and i realized this morning that i felt the same way again when i just started randomly crying for no apparent reason. dh and my fam are being really nice, though they don't always say the most helpful things, i know that they mean well by every single thing that they say.

i'm sort of riding the bitter bus all day too.....i'm sure u know how it can be......just thinking of all the ppl i know who have had 'accidental' babies....argh.........

but i think you're right, i just have to go thru this and grieve.....

i am thankful that this loss is not as physically painful as my last one......i had mini labour basically, contrax for 3 days, blah.

[jayepink]

You're definitely not a Debbie Downer--that's what we're here for. Frankly, that's what the ttcal board is for, celebrations and also heartbreaks. We've been there. I am very sorry for your losses. It is an awful, surreal thing to go through. I hope you will be able to get some answers.

And I just have to say that is the cutest pic in your siggy. Are those your dogs and if so how ever did you get them to pose like that?

[ohnicole]

I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope the ladies here will be able to give you some support. It's a horrible thing to go through and most people in real life just don't understand how hard it is and how much it changes you.

And I think we are all onboard the bitter bus when it comes to things like accidental pregnancies

Hugs.

[KAB]

I'm sorry for your losses, I hope that you can find some support here.

[~*sierra*~]

Originally Posted by jayepink

You're definitely not a Debbie Downer--that's what we're here for. Frankly, that's what the ttcal board is for, celebrations and also heartbreaks. We've been there. I am very sorry for your losses. It is an awful, surreal thing to go through. I hope you will be able to get some answers.

And I just have to say that is the cutest pic in your siggy. Are those your dogs and if so how ever did you get them to pose like that?

the one on the right is my dog, the other is a friends dog, and they are photoshopped into that pose!

thanks everyone for such a nice welcome!

[Natalie_Snow]

I am so sorry for your losses {HUGS} The ladies on this board are amazing and sooo supportive! You gonna love it here! But I hope that our stay here is short and you get your beautiful sticky BFP very soon!!! GL!

P.S. I love your doggies, they are the cutest! I also have a toy dog.. but it's a toy poodle.

[BeccaM]

I am so sorry for your losses. I hope your stay with us is very short. The ladies here are wonderful support. We all have our bad days but dont think of it as being a debbie downer.

I agree with the other ladies.. Those dogs are just adorable!! I have a Chi-Weenie... Part Weener dog part Chihuahua.

[~*sierra*~]

aawe!! chi-weenie! how cute
i love my dog so much, she's such a good little pal. her name is Chile, the other dog Rilo is her online boyfriend lol. whats your chi-weenies name?

Natalie, what's your poodle's name?