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douglas678 · #1 April 12th, 2010, 04:32 PM

I know I'm in and out of here often. I haven't had much time to get on and check anything. I meant to write on here a few weeks ago but that never happened. I went to a plain jane gyno doc. I was getting kinda worried about what was up with my body.
Just a little bit of a refresher. I had my miscarriage on October 26th, 2009. I didn't get my first period until January 8th, 2010. Today is April 12, 2010 and I have yet to get a period. So, Because AF was still MIA with no BFP, I went to the dr to get an exam. Everything is normal, although she did tell me if by the end of the month I still have no AF with and testing positive, then she will refer me to an actually OBGYN. Since she just does the basic. Sooo, May 1st, I will be testing again, if a BFN then I will be making another appt.
Hopefully get something to get my body in check. I used to hate AF, and now that I'm trying and it's no where in sight, I miss it so much. It's been a very emotional rollercoaster. I hate not knowing what's going on, and I feel like I'm broken. I know that things will get normal, but it just seems like it's far off. Fingers crossed that AF will arrive soon, or that I will get on something to help AF arrive. Can't hide for ever AF!

Kary♥RN · #2 April 12th, 2010, 04:48 PM

Jana HUGS... That is a long time to go without AF.... I am a little confused... are you still testing positive on the HPTs? I think I would go to an OB/GYN just to run everything by them.. they can do an ultrasound to make sure you don't have anything else going on in the uterus, they also have different meds they can give you to bring on AF... Going through a loss... is just hard.. now to deal with all this before you can even move on to the TTCAL journey... HUGS..

ohnicole · #3 April 12th, 2010, 08:16 PM

I'm sorry you have to go through that. Your story is similar to mine. My loss was 9/18, and I didn't get AF until December. I have only had 2 AFs in 2010. I think if you go to an OB, they will be willing to help you sooner. Mine was willing to give me Clomid after 5 months of weird cycles (I just didn't start it yet for unrelated reasons). I hope you get it figured out soon. Not knowing what your body is doing is so frustrating.

EJsMommy · #4 April 13th, 2010, 05:41 AM

I am sorry that you have to go through this not knowing what is going on with your body. I would also go to a OBGYN to get answers to why AF has not shown. There is a reason alright but they should be able to help you find out what that reason is and fix it.
I am rooting for AF to show so that you can begin your journey of TTCAL.

{{{Hugs}}}

douglas678 · #5 April 19th, 2010, 09:46 PM

Well, I haven't taken a test in about 3 weeks, but the last one I took was negative. I haven't had a positive test since before the m/c. I am hopefully going to be talking with my regular gyno to send me to an ob/gyn within the next few weeks. I do have to share, my friend told me I've been acting funny. So who knows, I may go take a test in a couple of days. I kinda think my body is just being weird, and I'm a little stressed, but you never know. Thank you for all the advice ladies, I really do appreciate being able to hop on here and have ppl help me. When I'm feeling down, up, and in between, I know there is always someone to talk to.
Thank you ladies.
Jana

Servilia · #6 April 19th, 2010, 10:40 PM

(((HUGS))) I hope you get answers soon. It just sucks being in limbo. How were your cycles before the m/c?

douglas678 · #7 April 20th, 2010, 05:47 PM

my cycles were pretty regular. They varied a few days. But, I knew the week.

AF decided to show after all. During my shift at work. Luckly I was on lunch and I could run to walmart. Since things have been out of whack, I wasn't prepared. So yeah. Fun fun. No time to start trying hard again.