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April 13th, 2010, 05:45 AM
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Waiting patiently....
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Well, things didn't progress well and I had a D&C yesterday. The baby didn't seem to grow any bigger since I was measuring 6 weeks. When I go back to the Dr. in 2 weeks he's going to do blood work to try to figure out what's going on. I really thought this time around would be the "one" but since being wrong, I'm just an emotional wreck and am done for now with TTC. I don't know that I will change my mind any time soon, but who knows.
I hope you girls don't mind if I hand around here though. I hate board hoping and feel close to a bunch of you here.
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April 13th, 2010, 05:55 AM
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Hugs hun! I am so sorry your going through this again. Your in my thoughts and prayers. And of course you can stick around! I pray that you decide to TTC again and get your sticky bean!
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April 13th, 2010, 05:56 AM
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I am so so sorry that this happened again to you. Of course you can hang around here with us on the TTCAL board. {{{Hugs}}}
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April 13th, 2010, 05:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no Stephanie! i was really hoping that was it for you  ((. I am soo sorry! My heart is breaking . 
Please stay around, you know we love you on thsi board.
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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April 13th, 2010, 05:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry you had to suffer another loss. My heart is breaking for you. You are in my thoughts.
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April 13th, 2010, 06:00 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry Stephanie. I will be praying for you.
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April 13th, 2010, 06:02 AM
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I am so so sorry for your loss. I am lost for words.......I cannot imagine what your are going through.
Just joined this board recently but I am 100% sure everyone is okay to have you on even if you decide not to TTC anytime soon or all together. I am not sure how soon I will TTC again either. Had a D&C 28 days ago, waiting for AF. If you have any questions about D&C just post away. We are here for you.
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April 13th, 2010, 07:50 AM
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So very, very sorry.
Hugs.
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April 13th, 2010, 08:36 AM
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Waiting for my turn.
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Im so sorry for your loss. Hugs
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April 13th, 2010, 08:49 AM
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(((Hugs))) stephanie...I hope you get some answers.
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April 13th, 2010, 09:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry you're going through this again.
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April 13th, 2010, 10:32 AM
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I'm sorry honey...  I don't blame you right now for feeling the way you do. It's so fresh and just happened, down the road I'm sure your mind will change. Give yourself as much time as you need tho, you need to greive and allow yourself time to heal emotionally and physically. In the mean time, please do stick around!!!! We don't want you to go anywhere
much love and prayers go out to you honey
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April 13th, 2010, 10:37 AM
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So sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you get some answers from the dr. in a couple of weeks. You are in my T&P
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April 13th, 2010, 01:08 PM
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Stephanie... HUGS.. This is your home.. Please stay... Let us be here for you... HUGS
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April 13th, 2010, 01:24 PM
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*hugs* please stick around, i just got here and i'd like to get to know everyone!
i can understand being fed up with ttc....i feel like that sometimes too....
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April 13th, 2010, 01:26 PM
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Im so sad for you, and just reading the replies brings tears to my eyes. This really is such a caring group of women. To me there isn't anywhere else to be, I know how you feel about being here. Its an emotional support that we rarely find outside of ttcal. You are always welcome here and in our hearts.
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April 13th, 2010, 02:52 PM
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oh hun, i'm sooooo sorry!!! i've been where you are now. if you need to chat or vent, please PM me!!! i remember the first time i m/c's i was in shock cause it never dawned on me that that might happen, the second time I thought it would never happen twice and the third time i was just flat out numb!!! again i'm so sorry for your loss!!!! big HUGS
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April 13th, 2010, 05:52 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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Thank you so much for the love girls. I need all I can get now. 
DH and I had a talk when he came home from work and he said the most endearing things that just made my heart melt. He completely understands where my brain is right now and is backing me 100% on my feelings. I needed that talk with him too. I learned that he has a friend at work who has been in a very similar situation as us, lost twins and then went through some m/c's. It made me feel better that he has a man to talk to about things. Sometimes it's hard for him to express himself from man's point of view towards me and for him to be able to vent to someone close to him is reassuring to me. He needs to let his emotions out too.
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April 13th, 2010, 07:47 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Huge hugs. I'm so sorry that you have had to go through so much, but I'm glad that you feel at home here and have a place to get support.
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April 14th, 2010, 05:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Stephanie - I have said this before but I hate seeing you go through this. I have been where you are. Like Lynda said, "the first time i m/c's i was in shock cause it never dawned on me that that might happen, the second time I thought it would never happen twice and the third time i was just flat out numb" and for me the fourth time I was flat out mad and so over TTC. But I pushed my doctor to refer me to someone, got some bloodwork done, had genetic testing done and started seeing an acupuncturist. It took only a few months but it felt like SO much longer... and from somewhere I found the strength to try again. I think the desire to have what was so far being taken away in a cruel twist of fate made me keep going.
Take the time you need. If you get back to the place where you can see yourself TTC we are all here for you. If not, we are still here to support any decision you make. I don't post here very much anymore but this group of ladies never ceases to amaze me with their support and love of one another. No matter what you decide you will always be "one of us".
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