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April 13th, 2010, 02:00 PM
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Cycle buddies group ~ TTCAL ON HOLD ~ Thread
 Hello ladies!
We have many new members and I wanted to start this cycle group thread back up since we do have many who are not trying at the moment for a variety or reasons... going thru a pg loss, not ready to ttc after a loss, physically/emotionally not ready to try, going thru testing and more. Here is where everyone can have a "cycle group of ladies" belong to without the added pressures of ttc.
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April 13th, 2010, 02:07 PM
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Hi, I guess i belong here since we are not really TTCAL... we are only NTNP. I love living without that pressure!!
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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April 13th, 2010, 05:54 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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Oh wow.. everything Celena said is me!! I definitely belong here!!
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April 13th, 2010, 06:11 PM
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i am going thru a loss right now......i think we will be ttc next cycle but that might not be for a while, it took me two months to get back to normal after my first loss...so i will join this thread too!
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April 13th, 2010, 06:39 PM
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I  you ladies and this is a helpful cycle group to have... definitely takes some of the pressure off and can help in talking about the *on hold* aspects.
So shall we do a little introduction type thing?
Name / age:
DH / age:
Location:
Bio (anything you feel comfortable sharing):
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April 13th, 2010, 07:46 PM
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Well, I am sure all you ladies know that I belong here!
Name / age: Lisa 25
DH / age: Matt 28
Location: Illinois
Bio (anything you feel comfortable sharing): I have been told by 3 diff drs. that my wait time is 6 months from m/c, 6months from a neg. hcg, and 12 months from a neg. hcg. Not sure what I will do about that but at the time we are not trying.
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April 14th, 2010, 06:03 AM
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i'm Sarah, 27.
Location: Canada
i'm on my second loss in a row and i have only been pregnant those two times in my whole life. i wish i would have known it would be like this, then i would have went off the pill a looooong time ago. i've been off it a year now though...
i am waiting on a bunch of test results from my doc, i get them back this friday. i'll let u know if they come up with any reason for these m/c's.
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April 14th, 2010, 11:37 AM
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April 15th, 2010, 05:34 AM
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how's everyone doing today?
my m/c has eased up a lot, i basically only had VERY light AF yesterday, i'd almost even call it just spotting. this is a very wierd length AF for me, as i usually have 7-8 days of it, but who knows maybe it will pick up again today.
also it was my second day temping again (i took a loooong break from it), and i managed to remember again, yay!
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April 15th, 2010, 06:09 AM
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Name / age: Natalie, 24
DH / age: Andrew, 26
Location: USA
Bio (anything you feel comfortable sharing): I've had two losses back to back.. still trying to TTC our first baby. If I knew I would have problems with being/staying PG, we would have tried 4 years ago... I keep beating myself for waiting...we started TTC only in November 2008...
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April 15th, 2010, 06:28 AM
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Hi ladies,
Name / age: Larissa, 30
DH / age: Byron, 40
DD / age: Athena, 3
Stepson: Aaron, 10
Location: NJ
Bio (anything you feel comfortable sharing): Lost baby at 12 weeks 3 days, D&C March 17th, still waiting for first AF.
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April 15th, 2010, 05:52 PM
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Welcome ladies!!! So sorry that we all have to be here. Hopefully the time will go by for all of us and we can move on to ttc soon!
I had my m/c in Dec. @ 15w4d due to a partial molar pregnancy. I am still testing positive on pg tests and it has been 17weeks since my m/c. I am not cleared to conceive for at least a couple months *that is if I go by the dr. that gave me the shortest wait time. Although I may not even be neg. by then. I am currently getting chemo right now to help get rid of the hcg in my system. Needless to say I will be here a long time.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker] [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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April 16th, 2010, 06:44 PM
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oh that is what PMP means...i'm so sorry to hear that you're going through that.....*hugs*
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April 18th, 2010, 08:37 AM
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April 18th, 2010, 08:47 AM
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Yes, sorry I replied in the other thread but I don't know if you read it. Most people haven't heard of it. We need to think of something to keep you busy til your bw too! I am about to go nuts waiting for mine so I know you have to be too!
AFM: Going to get bw tomorrow. I am so nervous. I wish it was Tuesday though so I could have my result. If it increases a lot then I am going to request an u/s before I get my chemo treatment just in case I could be pg. I may actually request an u/s anyways to check for tissue and stuff. I haven't had another one since my D&C. Dr. said he got everything but maybe the molar has grown back.
So busy week for me:
4/19: Blood work
4/21: Chemo (8:00) and appt. with the gynecologist oncologist (2:00)
How is everyone else doing? Any plans this week?
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker] [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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April 20th, 2010, 11:32 AM
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I got my blood work results and my hcg is now at 18.75. 3 more rounds of chemo left!!!! One is tomorrow so I may be MIA for a few days. It all depends on how I feel.
Even though I don't have doctors orders saying I can start trying I am hoping to start in June or July.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker] [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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