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April 15th, 2010, 09:56 PM
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High IQ~ No common sense
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Not all people, just the one's who are like "omg. I literally did nothing and DH, SO, or DBF and I did nothing and I got PG"
Sorry, but that's how I feel. I just saw my step sis and she is preggers with number 5. She is 6 years younger than me. I am 31.....when is it my turn to have an "earth baby" that I can hold????
am I wrong?? I feel so badly.....
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April 15th, 2010, 10:49 PM
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I'm sorry Michelle, it is such a crappy time emotionally and physically whilst ttc. I too don't want to hear stories like that & I want to slap them when they to tell me those stories. Hugs x
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April 15th, 2010, 11:02 PM
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Well it's no big news. shes almost 8 months but she hid it from me......like I'd be mad or jealous or something.........
EDT to say step sis and i almost never see each other....
Do you ever feel like self inflicted pain makes you feel better? Yes. I am bi polar....
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Last edited by ..Michelle..; April 15th, 2010 at 11:12 PM.
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April 16th, 2010, 02:56 AM
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Michelle, TTCAL is hard. It hurts emotionally and it is difficult to be happy for others success when you live in a world that is like a bubble of pain and frustrations. (hugs) it is normal to feel the way you are.
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April 16th, 2010, 03:18 AM
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Hugs! It is hard I totally agree and that would have made it harder and upset me more if she hid it! I'm sorry!
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April 16th, 2010, 04:57 AM
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Massive hugs.
xxx
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April 16th, 2010, 05:38 AM
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I am sending you Massive Hugs as well  
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April 16th, 2010, 05:59 AM
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As hard as it is, I TRY, and i say try because I am not always successful, but when someone tells me how easy it is/was for them, I TRY to think "oh thank god they dont' ahve to feel what I feel.
Like I said, i'm not always successful. Somedays, i want to stomp on their head..LOL. just kidding, well sort of , no really, kidding.
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April 16th, 2010, 08:48 AM
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((Hugs)) I understand! I can't say I hate people like that, because I used to be that kind of a person...I had 4 kids by the time I was 26 and never really had to do much trying...It really bugs me when people get pregnant so easy, don't take care of themselfs very much and can go on to have a healthy baby, and so many people try and try and do everything they can to be healthy and then lose a baby...It's really so unfair 
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April 16th, 2010, 08:52 AM
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Thanks for the support. I was just "down" last night.
Thanks again! to you all as well!
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April 16th, 2010, 09:04 AM
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Didn't you hear? You have to be a single woman, with no money, and with a drug addiction to get pg!
Don't let others get you down.
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April 16th, 2010, 09:09 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KDD
Didn't you hear? You have to be a single woman, with no money, and with a drug addiction to get pg!
Don't let others get you down.
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Is that what it takes? Ok... I am off to go buy some drugs with my entire savings account and cancel the wedding 
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April 16th, 2010, 09:22 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KDD
Didn't you hear? You have to be a single woman, with no money, and with a drug addiction to get pg!
Don't let others get you down.
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Hey, you must be talking about my neighbor!  ...I saw her the other day and she looks to be due in about September...I think I might have to move! (BTW She just got back from treatment in December, and she's single)
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April 16th, 2010, 09:49 AM
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HUGS.... I am so sorry... It is so frustrating... One of the girls I work with... They decided to start trying.. She went off the pill... got pregnant before AF showed.. GRR Another girl.. wasn't even trying and can't keep her coments to herself about how this "baby will cramp her social life"... OHHH BOOO FRIGIN HOO!!!!
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April 16th, 2010, 12:59 PM
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"Is that what it takes? Ok... I am off to go buy some drugs with my entire savings account and cancel the wedding"
LOL!!!!
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April 16th, 2010, 01:28 PM
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Just Rachel
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I'm sorry Michelle! Huge ((hugs))
I'm probably one of those people that you hate. Not trying to rub salt in your wounds, but each time I've wanted to be pregnant, I have been able to get pregnant. But this time, after my loss, I don't feel like it's going to be the same way. I have no reason to feel that way, but I can't control how I feel and neither can you. I think it's perfectly normal to feel what you're feeling. More ((hugs))
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