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April 16th, 2010, 06:42 PM
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I had an abdominal ectopic a year ago this month which brought our pregnancy loss total up to 4. My husband and I are discussing TTC again and I'm very nervous. I am also 34 which isn't "ancient" but as far as fertility, I'm no spring chick either. Reading all the risks and statistics is so deflating regarding my age, my dx (endometriosis), my medical history (ectopic, unexplained m/c), etc. What are the odds of me getting pregnant the first month with a perfectly healthy baby in the right spot and go 9 months with no complications?? Can I put my order in now?

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April 16th, 2010, 06:56 PM
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Hugs Kelly.
I'm 41...I'm no spring chicken either

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April 16th, 2010, 07:03 PM
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Hi Kelly,

I am sorry for your losses... I am 41 here so you are a spring chicken!!! I am placing an order this month as well so hopefully we get a good delivery
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April 16th, 2010, 07:05 PM
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Hi Kelly,

I am sorry for your losses... I am 41 here so you are a spring chicken!!! I am placing an order this month as well so hopefully we get a good delivery
I didn't know you were 41 too?
How awesome
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April 16th, 2010, 07:07 PM
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I didn't know you were 41 too?
How awesome
Yes I am... and I have 3 boys as well (mine are just a little older)!
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April 16th, 2010, 07:08 PM
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Hi there! Welcome! I'm so sorry for your losses. I'm 37, so I'm not spring chicken either. TTC after a loss, with advanced maternal age (I hate that term!) is scary!
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April 16th, 2010, 08:29 PM
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Yes I am... and I have 3 boys as well (mine are just a little older)!
I remembered that you had 3 boys....I'm so glad I'm not the only "40 something" girl here
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April 17th, 2010, 06:37 AM
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Hi there! Welcome! I'm so sorry for your losses. I'm 37, so I'm not spring chicken either. TTC after a loss, with advanced maternal age (I hate that term!) is scary!
Ditto!! Only Im at the 'advanced maternal age' of 39! lol What a horrible term!
Anyway, enough about that! Welcome to our board Kelly, I hope your stay is short!
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