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April 22nd, 2010, 08:03 AM
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Hi gals, wanted to give you a quick update. I went in and they did an u/s and there is a sac, but I guess the area around the sac showed some kind of modeling (for lack of a better word) that indicates the lining of the uterus is breaking up, thus I am miscarrying again. I showed my dr. my tests that are just about negative now and she said it probably is because of decreasing hcg. So this one is not going to make it either!
My Dr. and I had a long talk and I need to have cycle day 3 bloodwork taken to check my hormone levels and they want to do the hsg not because they want to see if my tubes are clear (cause obviously they are) they want to look at the uterus in detail. I guess they do that with the hsg. My Dr. told me she is suspecting premature ovarian failure, as she has done massive blookwork in the past and has found nothing else wrong. She told me that my best way of getting pregnant permanently might be through something called ISCI insemination of my eggs and then IVF. They would stimulate me to produce loads of eggs then the would retrieve them and insert my DH's sperm directly into the egg. Then they would select the strongest fertilized embryos and transfer them into my uterus. I have to call my RE and we are all going to sit down and talk. I'm not all the familiar with what ISCI (or if i even have those letters in the right order). I'm too tired to google it right now.
I am sad right now and I feel very very broken. What seems very very easy for some, can be so very gut wrenching for others. i wish i could change it all for everyone here!!!
I need to mourn right now and then I will move forward. GOD WILL NEVER GIVE ME MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE!!!! But getting close to the end! HUGS dear friends, I will return when I have worked through this! hopefully sooner than later!
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April 22nd, 2010, 08:15 AM
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Lynda Big Massive Hugs. There are no words for me to express my sorrow for your loss that I feel right now. Take your time to greive and when you are ready to come back here and talk we are here for you.
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April 22nd, 2010, 08:27 AM
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Oh Lynda. I am crying so hard for you right. I am so very sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please take the time you need. I am here if you need me.
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April 22nd, 2010, 09:03 AM
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i'm so very sorry 
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April 22nd, 2010, 09:31 AM
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Oh Lynda! Big huge massive hugs for you. Its just not fair. I know if my heart you will get your sticky bean! Praying that the HSG gives you some helpful answers.
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April 22nd, 2010, 10:06 AM
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Lynda...I am so so sorry. Go ahead and grieve....you need that. Hang in there..
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April 22nd, 2010, 10:08 AM
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Lynda I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. I will be praying for you and your DH that GOD will get you both through this hard time.
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April 22nd, 2010, 10:09 AM
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I must have missed the big post.. I am so sorry to hear about your loss hun.. I hope that you get answers, and you are strong.. Hang in there hun...HUGE HUGS!!!
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April 22nd, 2010, 11:16 AM
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Lynda, I'm very sorry.
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April 22nd, 2010, 11:20 AM
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OH Lynda... HUGS.... I am so sorry you are going through this again... HUGS..Take as long as you need we will be here for you... HUGS
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April 22nd, 2010, 12:20 PM
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Lynda, I am so very, very sad and sorry for you right now. Wish I could give you a big, tight cuddle.
Much love. You are an amazing woman.
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April 22nd, 2010, 01:50 PM
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HUGS! you know we are all here for you when you are ready to return. I hope the testing your doctor wants to do will find you some answers and give you the miracle you deserve!
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April 22nd, 2010, 02:07 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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Huge hugs Linda. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
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April 22nd, 2010, 02:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry Lynda
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i'm so overwhelmed...i won't be on for a while, need to do some things in RL first
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April 22nd, 2010, 02:12 PM
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 Lynda you have amazing strength woman, more than you know
I'm incrediab;ly sorry you're going thru this loss right now Lynda  we're all here for you as much as you want us to be!!! And I do have to say that I'm glad to hear that they're going to do CD3 blood work and go from there to check you out thoroughly!
Please keep us posted honey
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April 22nd, 2010, 04:31 PM
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I just wrote a real long post to you and my internet went down...
I want you to know I am aching in sadness for you right now.... I wish I could take your pain away. I am here for you.
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April 22nd, 2010, 06:44 PM
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Lynda I am so so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope you find answers soon. If you need anything or just need to talke pm me. So so sorry hun.
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April 22nd, 2010, 07:05 PM
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Oh Lynda, I am so sorry that you have to go thru all of this.
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April 22nd, 2010, 08:23 PM
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Lynda I am so sorry Hopefully the Dr. can figure something out before you do IVF. If you do have any questions about ICSI let me know as we did it in our IVF cycle.
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April 22nd, 2010, 09:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Lynda I'm sorry for your loss.. I had been lurking the TTC 6 months + board and was so happy when you got that BFP. I am so sorry
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