[MeganMomof5]

My husband informed me today that his company is getting a job in Guam and they keep asking him if he wants to go over there and work, and they'd fly him home about every 3 months...He said that he keeps telling them no and he doesn't want to go...If he goes I don't know what i'll do...I don't want to be a single parent for god knows how long, and what would I do about TTC? I don't want to wait on that...I told him that if they tell him he has to go to just quit his job...I'd rather be dirt poor than have him be sent off to another country...He doesn't want to be away from his family...UGH i'm just so stressed out over this.

[EJsMommy]

Megan, that is super stressful on anyone that a family member has to choose between a job or the family. The family is more important than any job. Stay strong and if the company he works for cannot understand a no then he should be able to find another job of some sort.
BIG Hugs!!

[ldovey83]

I agree that is a really stressful spot to be in.. I believe that family is way more important then a job, and so if his job dosent understand that then he should just quit.. Good luck with that hun.

[ohnicole]

I'm so sorry you guys are stuck in this situation. I think you have a good plan, and hopefully your husband's boss won't try to force him into that job. Hugs!

[aitch]

Definitely stressful. Is there no way that you could all move? I know that's an upheaval too but just a thought. And Guam might be nice?