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April 28th, 2010, 07:11 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hi gals, I have gone through my 4th miscarriage. wow it seems so odd to write that! anyway, i don't think i'd be feeling so good, but i had a great talk with my dr's. i feel confident that we will be pregnant in the next 6 months with a sticky bean! DH and I decided we are going to be aggressive cause we are sick of waiting.
The bad news is they are making me wait till my next period to do the cycle day 3 bloodwork and the HSG. I was so bummed to find that I had to wait a cycle. but i understand the body needs time to heal and we want accurate information with these tests. still hard to wait. i haven't gotten pregnant in 8 months and WAM. the cycle before I was to do these tests and get some information, I get pregnant and now I have to wait. timing, seems cruel! In the mean time, I am signed up for a seminar on IVF so I have it completed, just in case that is the route we go.
The good news is, yes, I can get pregnant! but what good is that if I can't stay pregnant. DH is going to get his SA done soon. They keep telling me he could be the problem. I'm hoping it's me, cause i think I can be more easily fixed! I hope! CD3 bloodwork and hsg when next AF shows and then RE appt to discuss results on June 9th in the morning!
We will be preventing this cycle, cause I don't want to wait any longer to move forward. So i'm back here with you all, fighting for my future sticky bfp! I've really missed you gals!!! I will continue to pray for us all!!!
Lynda
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April 28th, 2010, 07:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lynda, I'm so sorry that you have to be here, but am glad to see that you are in good spirits. Good luck with all your testing. Keep up posted.
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April 28th, 2010, 07:36 AM
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Waiting patiently....
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Sorry for your loss, but at least you're taking the next steps! I hope you can get things figured out soon and your sticky BFP is just around the corner!
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April 28th, 2010, 08:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh LYnda I am so sorry hun. I am praying for you. I am glad you are getting some testing going to see what may be the problem. That is a very postive thing. I am just so sorry you are having to go through another loss.
Hugs and pm if you need to talk.
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April 28th, 2010, 08:20 AM
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Sorry that you had to go through another loss. I hope that the dr. is able to get things figured out so you can get that sticky bean soon!
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April 28th, 2010, 08:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lynda Im so sorry you are having to go through another loss. I hope the docs will have some answers for you on the 9th and you get your sticky bean soon!!
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April 28th, 2010, 10:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am sorry that you have to be back here. I am glad however that you have the chance to start to move forward with some testing....that's great. I will be hoping and praying for a sticky bfp for you soon!
Sorry again Lynda...
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April 28th, 2010, 10:33 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am sorry you are back here and not still in a DDC somewhere but it is good news that your doctor will run some tests and start to figure out what is going on with you. My magic number was 4 miscarriages before I got one to stick (at least so far) so I hope that is your magic number too!
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April 28th, 2010, 11:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry you guys had to go through another loss, but it sounds like you have a good attitude moving forward! Hoping that you have nothing but sticky baby dust from now on!
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April 28th, 2010, 11:41 AM
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So sorry Lynda. You have a wonderful attitude. Massive hugs to you.
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April 28th, 2010, 12:59 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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HUGS... I am sorry that you have had to go through this yet again... I am glad you got to talk to your Drs. and now have a game plan... HUGS
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April 28th, 2010, 02:04 PM
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Tobi
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Im so sorry you are going through another loss. I wish you luck with all the testing, hopefully they figure out quickly what is going on, for you!
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April 28th, 2010, 04:04 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Lynda - I remember you from when I was on before. I'm glad to see that your doc has a great plan for you. I just had my 3rd loss and my OB has mentioned an HSG as well. I can't wait to follow your journey to your sticky BFP. I just know that you're going to get it and soon!
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April 28th, 2010, 05:34 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your testing gives you some answers with quick & easy fixes.
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April 28th, 2010, 06:48 PM
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Lynda, so sorry for your loss. *Hugs* It sounds like you have a great Dr & game plan. GL with it all
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April 28th, 2010, 08:19 PM
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I am so sorry you had another loss. I am so glad your dr is being good and aggressive. I pray your next pregnancy is a sticky one and you won't be back (if you know what I mean).
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April 29th, 2010, 05:45 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry that you are back here again... I wish you lick with the testing and I hope that your doctor will figure out the problem very soon. I hope you get your STICKY BFP next time!!! I have the same problem you have.. i can get PG but i do not seem to be able to stay PG..
HUGS!
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