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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
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And its a BFN. Of course. And then late last night/ early this am AF came to visit. Ah well on to the next cycle. DBF seems to be very optomistic, very huggie and sweet, sayinf he feels like this month is going to be the month. It actually just makes me cry, knowing how hopeful he is cause Im starting to believe that maybe its just not going to happen. Old eggs, previous leep procedure and god knows what else. Ive made an appointment to see my Doc on Friday, to ask about the consequences of leep and also to ask about checking us both out. I mean, Im 39 and in my head I know I dont really have the time to see if we can, for a year before they start checking things out.
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High IQ~ No common sense
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Central Illinois
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 So sorry the  showed for you Tobi. Sounds like you have a plan for the near future though!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2008
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I'm sooo sorry Tobi  I agree with seeing the doc, usually when you're over 35 they don't wait a year of TTC before helping! Good luck!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Texas
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I'm sorry Tobi. I think it is a good idea to talk to your doctor. I hope this is your cycle and this is the last time you see AF for a long time
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: California
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Tobi, I'm very sorry that AF showed for you. I hope that the Dr will be able to help you so you can get your BFP very soon. 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
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I'm sorry . . . hope everything works out soon and your DBF is right!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
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I'm so sorry Tobi - that sucks.
Good luck this cycle though!
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Veteran
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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Tobi, I am so sorry. I'm glad DB is so supportive and optimistic though. You kinda scared me though. Do you believe your LEEP has anything to do with trouble TTC and losses? That is one of my biggest fears. Hope you get some answers at your dr. appt hun!! KUP!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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I am sorry hun that AF showed her ugly face.. I hope that when you see your Dr that he can help you get the baby that you long for.. Hang in there.. Your man sounds like a sweet guy...
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Love-Bug
Tobi, I am so sorry. I'm glad DB is so supportive and optimistic though. You kinda scared me though. Do you believe your LEEP has anything to do with trouble TTC and losses? That is one of my biggest fears. Hope you get some answers at your dr. appt hun!! KUP!!
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Im sorry I scared you I will let you know what my Dr says about it.
Thank you all for your well wishes, I appreciate you all so much! And I think you are right, DBF is a sweetie with all this TTC stuff!
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3 Princes & 1 Princess
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: PA
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I'm so sorry. Big hugs Tobi.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 1,684
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Just some medical info on LEEP, while there is no research to indicate it can cause trouble conceiving, it has been shown to have an increased incidence of cervical incompetence, but that would be after removing a sizable amount of tissue. (also maybe ask the doc to check for cervical stenosis)
I am not trying to scare the bejeesus out of you but rather give information so as to approach it with a "okay, how to do we work with this" mentality. And like a previous poster pointed out, after 35 you don't wait a year. Six months of unprotected sex and no pregnancy is the "time limit" for doc checking on women TTC after 35.
Your BF sounds like a wonderful man and you two both deserve to hold your child soon. Sending lots of sticky dust and positive vibes!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
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I'm sorry about your BFN this cycle, but I think you have a good plan to see the doctor. And you seem to have a great support system!
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3,610
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Quote:
Originally Posted by cricket909
I'm sorry about your BFN this cycle, but I think you have a good plan to see the doctor. And you seem to have a great support system!
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You ladies are my rock(s)!!  My DBF is great but I think that unless someone has walked in our shoes, they can not entirely understand our struggles and fears.
Re: BigGrin, thanks for your input, I would never think you would post something to scare me! I thank you for sharing your knowledge with me!
Thank you all again for all you ladies do!
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