[mom2njia]

I went to the Er last Sat, which is when I found out that this pregnancy is not viable. I am not bleeding. I was in the process of changing docs when I found this out. The old doc wont take me (because he was LIVID I got pregnant again), and the new doc couldn't get me in until 5/10. I have no idea if my levels are still rising or if they are falling. Or what exactly is going on period.
Today I feel weird. No fever, no bleeding, cramping but not horribly, occasional sharp pain on my left side, but it comes and goes. I just feel off. Is this worth a trip to the ER? Or would I be ok to wait til Monday?

[MeganMomof5]

I found out on friday that I lost the baby and didn't have my D&C till tuesday....that weekend I was getting pains that came and went...I don't know if it was normal or not...I would probably wait if you aren't bleeding really bad, but that's just me and that's how I am...If it gets really painful to the point where you can't stand it, maybe go in for pain meds? sorry if i'm no help

[LisaG825]

So sorry to hear that! You could always go to the hospital and have them do blood work if that would make you feel any better.

[mom2njia]

Thanks. I doubt my body is going to do anything on its own, with my last blighted ovum I went to 10 weeks. I will just wait until I go to the doc unless the pain gets really bad or I get a fever.

[Halloween81]

With my last pregnancy it stopped growing at almost 7 weeks, I didnt find out until 9 weeks and then didnt m/c until the week after. I spotted for about 10 days before my body actually m/c'ed. The Ob said that as long as I wasnt bleeding badly, didnt have a fever, and wasnt in a lot of pain it was okay to wait. It sounds like you know all this but I just wanted to back up your decision. I'm really sorry for your loss.

[pisceeangel]

I say go with what your body tells you. If the pain gets terrible or if a fever strikes head to the ER, but if you can and want to wait. I'm so sorry for your loss.