Having a bad day

BuckeyeGal23 · #1 May 19th, 2010, 05:29 AM

I am having a rough day today...I thought I was okay - I really haven't been that upset for the past week. I think it's probably because today is my follow-up appt (2 wks) for my D&C. I just don't understand why this happened - I keep reading that a missed miscarriage is really rare, and I am so terrified it's going to happen again. We are going to wait to ttc again until August (I am working on a project around a lot of high voltage electricity and I don't want to risk it - the project is over in July). But I am so worried now - I can't imagine staying this worried for the next 3 months. Does it ever get better?!

BabyAthena · #2 May 19th, 2010, 05:46 AM

It will get better! My D&C was in march and my 2-week follow up was horrible. The waiting room was full of pregnant women I just wanted to cry. I think things started to get better after my first AF and I was able to relax a little and crack a smile every once in a while. It will get better! Now I we are starting TTC this month and I am so terrified.

big HUGS.......hang in there

EJsMommy · #3 May 19th, 2010, 05:47 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. It does get better over time but let it take the time you need to heal emotionally. It has taken me months to move through the pain and sorrow I felt after my loss back in November -09. The pain gets duller over time but I still feel a tiny bit sad every now and then. I myself can be a worry wort but my DH say that this will not change things for the better if I worry. Hang in there hun and will get better.

BuckeyeGal23 · #4 May 19th, 2010, 10:08 AM

thanks ladies...the follow-up went well - they actually brought me in at a time that they schedule GYN (not OB) patients so that was very thoughtful. My doctor was very reassuring...it's just so hard. I've been crying all day! But I know it will get better...it's just a bad patch

SD Mommy · #5 May 19th, 2010, 10:30 AM

Hi ProjectBaby, I'm so sorry to see you here. We were in the Dec. ddc.

I hope your day gets better.

Kary♥RN · #6 May 19th, 2010, 10:45 AM

HUGS... I am so sorry you are going though this.. You will have bad days and good days.. I can't say it got better for me.. it just got easier to handle... HUGS

~LaurenNoel~ · #7 May 19th, 2010, 01:35 PM

I have a missed m/c a month ago. I am still having a really hard time. *hugs*

BuckeyeGal23 · #8 May 19th, 2010, 05:22 PM

Of course it doesn't help though that today is our anniversary

And I usually talk to DH about this stuff, but I just don't want to upset him today. I hate today - I can't wait until it's over. Hopefully next anniversary we'll have a beautiful baby either here or on the way!