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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Hi ladies... Sorry I haven't been around the last few days... I have had a lot on my mind... On Tuesday we went for our ultrasound. Everything looked ok. I went to work Wed night and pulled up my Ultrasound report. As some of you know I work at the hospital were I have all testing done. Baby A has what they call intracardiac echogenic focus (EIF), this is a bright spot on its heart... While It maybe nothing. Some times it can be an increased risk for Downs or Trisomny 18. So I have just been having a hard time with swallowing this... With three losses... I was just starting to feel I could breath.... now this. I go in for my level II u/s on June 15th. So Hopefully we will have more measurments and Have my bloodwork back.... And please pray my blood work comes back ok.. That is the intergrated screening.. These are all "soft markers".. The NT scan, the EIF, and the intergrated screening. If any of these come back + for DS... They are only concsidered "Soft Markers" But with my history, my Age.... I am just scared. I have been crying for the past couples of days... I have PM's some JM members that when I searched the form, and they have eased my fears alittle.. but I am still so scared. Please keep us in T & P..
Thanks xoxoxoxo
Kary
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Kary praying for you and your little ones! I know my sister had that done and they saw the same thing and it ended up being nothing. Hugs! I know its hard to stay positive but try 
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Waiting patiently....
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Join Date: Jul 2008
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Praying hard that it is nothing and that everything will be great. I wish I had something to help ease your mind, but I haven't been through any of that. (((HUGS)))
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Oh Kary, you are in my thoughts and Ill be putting in a special prayer for you and your little ones. I know how hard it is to try to stay positive, so instead Ill say stay strong. Nothing is for sure and I pray for everything to turn out perfect for you. ~~hugs~~
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Az
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Sending positive thoughts your way!
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3 Princes & 1 Princess
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: PA
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Sending tons of positive vibes your way.
Huge hugs 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Florida
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They said Wesley's brain did not form correctly (by u/s), and he is perfect. I hope it's nothing. Praying...
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: California
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Praying for you and your babies Kary.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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Kary, you are in my thoughts and prayers. kup posted.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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I will definitely be saying prayers for you and your sweet darling babies.. Hang in there hun.. Hopefully it is nothing and it's just a glitch on the ultrasound...
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High IQ~ No common sense
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Central Illinois
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Definitley sending up prayers for you, DH, Baby A and B. 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: central fla
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Kary you are in my thoughts and prayers!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: CT USA
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You are in my thoughts. When I was pregnant with my son one of the "soft markers" came back elevated. My Ob did an U/S and thought that he saw something wrong with the babies brain. I was sent to a a specialist and when they did the U/S they said my son looked perfect. And he came out perfect. I hope that this is the case for you and that everything will turn out perfect.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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Hi Sweetie - I have a million thoughts going through my head for you right now.... I will pray all is ok for you and your babies. Is it possible to get another ultrasound before June? Oh Kary, you are in my thoughts.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: TX
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I will be praying. Try not worry. I am sure everything will be ok. I just watched a show where the Dr's thought there was something wrong with a babies heart and after birth they found out it was nothing. I wouldnt worry. I know its hard not to though.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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you are in my T&P, please keep us posted!
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Join Date: Jul 2009
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of course you're babies and you are in my prayers Kary, ALWAYS!
I'm so so so sorry!!!! Please, please, please....  STOP looking ahead in your charts before your doctors talk to you. It is SCARING THE **** out of you I cannot say that if I had access to that, that it wouldn't be temping to know... ugh. I'm sorry, so very sorry that all of this is happening.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Utah
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I will be thinking and praying for you Kary....and your little ones. Hang in there, keep up the faith and make sure to keep us posted.....
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Our rainbow baby Brynlee Sue was born August 17th after four heartbreaking loses! Life is an amazing journey. Hang on, keep your faith and try to always move forward!
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Super Hockey Mom
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Canada
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I will be thinking of you and your little ones. I believe that everything will be OK with both babies.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Virginia
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Kary, you and your lil ones are in my thoughts and prayers. BIG HUGS!
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