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May 24th, 2010, 07:26 AM
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So as per usual I poas this am with fmu and for sure I saw something. I think it was just an indent though. It was so faint, so I took the silly thing apart and it like exploded into pieces and fell onto the floor! It was actually pretty funny! So I picked up the pieces and tried to make sense of them, but nothing. Ive never gotten an indent line on a frer before. (White wrapper) Has this happened to anyone else? Could it possibly be the very beginning of a bfp? Im probably 11 to 13 days pdo, so I thought I would be able to see something by now, if there was going to be anything to see.
Any thoughts ladies?


***Update: So last night, still bfn. And then right before bed I started spotting, (2 days early!! ) still spotting this morning. Its weird because when AF shows, theres no gentle warm up, its generally just full force! So needless to say, I didn't use my frer today. Im so sad. The type of sad where you go through your day, cause you have to. Tears in eyes, never spilling, just there.


*** Update #2: The witch has arrived in full force. Along with a killer headache and nausea. Thank you ladies for all your support. I really needed to see your words and feel your compassion. You make my journey easier to endure. ~~hugs~~
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May 24th, 2010, 07:41 AM
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Could be, i say POAS again!!!!
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May 24th, 2010, 08:32 AM
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Id say POAS again! Hopefully its the start to a BFP! Good luck Tobi - KUP!!
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May 24th, 2010, 08:41 AM
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I hope it was the beginning of your BFP!
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May 24th, 2010, 08:45 AM
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Thanks ladies. Im hoping and you've helped to keep the hope up a bit. Its so discouraging to see the bfn's. As we all know!



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I hope it was the beginning of your BFP!
Too weird! I was just thinking about you and was heading to the Dec ddc to see how you are doing!!
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May 24th, 2010, 09:48 AM
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May 24th, 2010, 10:54 AM
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I hope this is your BFP!! Can't wait to hear what tomorrow brings!
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May 24th, 2010, 11:27 AM
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Yeah - I want to see pictures!!! I hope that you get a BFP tomorrow!
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May 24th, 2010, 12:43 PM
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May 24th, 2010, 02:35 PM
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lol Im seriously telling you it fell into pieces all over my floor! Ive got tons of $ store tests, only 2 frer left. Af is due wednesday, Im going to use a $ store test tonight then a frer with fmu tomorrow morning.

Has anyone had an indent line with a frer? Or heard of anyone?
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May 24th, 2010, 02:45 PM
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With this pregnancy I took a test 8dpo andsaw a super faint line but it didn't seem to have color so I thought it was just the indent line. I kinda thought it may have a hint of pink but when I took it apart I didn't think so. After it dried, I realized it did look a tiny bit pink. The next day I got a BFP that was very light but for sure pink. I really hope you get your BFP!!!!
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May 24th, 2010, 03:53 PM
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I was wondering what happened to the $Store tests your SO bought. Use it ASAP -- we wanna see that BFP!!
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May 24th, 2010, 04:28 PM
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I was wondering what happened to the $Store tests your SO bought. Use it ASAP -- we wanna see that BFP!!
He bought even more, I think my addiction is a little amusing to him!
Im not too hopeful still, I really think it was just an indent. We'll see!
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May 25th, 2010, 07:32 AM
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I'm so sorry Tobi
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May 25th, 2010, 07:51 AM
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I am so sorry Tobi....hang in there! But go ahead a cry .... a lot! You deserve it!
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May 25th, 2010, 09:12 AM
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Dang it, Tobi! I really hoped this was going to be it for you. I'm really sorry.
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May 25th, 2010, 09:29 AM
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I'm sorry Tobi, I know how hard this is month to month. *hugs*
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May 25th, 2010, 09:43 AM
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May 25th, 2010, 12:16 PM
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hugs hugs and more hugs!!! i'm sorry too!!!!
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May 25th, 2010, 07:12 PM
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Thank you for being here ladies, Last update in first post.
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