[bea4]

hi! i had a d&c in Feb at 11wks when we found out our sweet lil' angel passed at 8wks. we have 3 boys & were very excited to complete our family w/ #4. we waited til i had 1 AF (arrived 29 days after d&c) & then started ttc. we are now on cycle 3 (which is very hard b/c we have always gotten pg right away)-seeing a BFN is devastating. we are praying that this is our cycle! btw, we are also doing some swaying.
just wanted to say hi & babydust to us all!!

[tobi4]

Hi, Im sorry for your loss. Your story sounds very similar to mine. I had a m/c in feb as well, but was 7w4d and didnt have a d&c. Im just near the end of cycle 3, trying hard to stay positive.
Welcome to our board, there are so many helpful supportive women here, so jump right in. Im hoping to see a bfp from you soon!!

[Celena]

Bea

very sorry to hear about your loss Bea! It is very devastating to go thru a loss or multiple losses. It neve gets easier and none of us are ever prepared for it. We all know what it is to go thru at least 1 loss (or multiple) and that's the thread that binds us all together.

Most women do not get pregnant right away after a loss, but it seems that after you have a loss(es) a BFN and AF can be really traumatizing like adding insult to injury. We get hopeful and anticipate seeing a +... so months and months and months or even YEARS of BFN's can really wear on our emotions while going thru this journey.

You have to put up with the rain to get the rainbow! rainbow baby

[bea4]

thanks for your warm welcome!! it helps to know that i'm not alone. i'm trying to stay positive...it's just so darn hard! (esp. when i see pg women all around me)
oh well, gotta keep smiling & moving on, i guess!

[missy123]

I am so sorry for your loss... I have 3 boys as well... I am sorry you are here, but glad you found us. We understand what you are going through.

[j&jmom]

Welcome . . . what swaying tricks are you doing?

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hugs! I am so sorry for your loss! Welcome to the board and I pray you get a sticky BFP soon!

[BuckeyeGal23]

Welcome I am relatively new here - I had my first loss 3 weeks ago at 8 weeks. We haven't start ttc yet, but I can only imagine what you are going through! I'm sure each bfn is more devastating than the last...but the women here definitely provide hope and support whenever you need it!