Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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Join Date: Mar 2010
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A little bit about my story...I got my BFP on may 1st after trying for 10 months. On the 24th I started spotting and having the weirdest cramps, took my husband to work and came home only to have to go to the ER because the pain and spotting was worse. At the Er they did an internal exam and blood work and a ultrasound. They found a fetal pole but no HB but said I was measuring 6 weeks and 1 day not 7 weeks like I should have been, also my cervix was close and my HCG was at 4416 so they sent me home saying it was a missed misscariage. The next day I started bleeding heavy and having full on contractions so at that point we knew we were losing our baby, By that night I passed the baby and the bleeding and cramping stopped. Then the next morning the pain and bleeding started back up so we went back to the Er to find that I was just not finished passing everything. It has been very hard and I have felt pain I never thought I would have to feel. We were told we could try again right away since it was a early natural miscarriage so we are hoping it doesnt take long. Sorry for the long post but good luck everyone I hope everyone gets their BFP's soon and have healthy and happy pregnancies...
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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HUGS... I am so sorry for loss, but glad you found us. This board is full of wonderful ladies who will help you through this new part of your journey. TTCAL can be so hard. Welcome to the board. I hope your stay her is short, and you BFP comes quickly.. HUGS
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Veteran
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Join Date: Apr 2010
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I just recently had an early natural miscarriage and am starting to try right away also, so we are in a similar situation. It was my first one as well and I know how difficult and painful it is, but the ladies here truly do help tremendously. Hopefully you are not here long.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2010
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I'm always sad when someone new has to join over here. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in the right place. We will all be here to support you in anything you need. I hope you get your sticky BFP real soon!
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 561
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I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Im sorry you are going through this. ~~hugs~~ Whenever you have questions or just want to vent to someone, we will be here. Good luck on your journey, and I hope your sticky bean comes quickly for you!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: California
Posts: 3,019
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Welcome to the board, I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
Posts: 13,228
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I am so sorry for your loss. The minute we see that + pregnancy test we immediately fall in love and have a bond that can't be described. I am so sorry you are here but glad you found us. Feel free to join right in and post away. There is nothing you can say and/or do that we don't understand. ((hugs)) and welcome.
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Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 27
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Thank you everyone for the welcome. As of right now my bleeding has stopped which is faster than I thought it would be so hopefully we can get a sticky bean and maybe have a valentines baby!!! I guess we can all hope. Again thank you all for the welcome.
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
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I really truly hope that you do get your Valentine's Day baby 
 I'm very sorry to hear about your loss that you're going thru right now. It's devastating emotionally and painful physically as well... it's like salt in our wounds. I really hope that the bleeding stops soon and you're on your way to healing both physically and emotionally
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Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 27
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It wouldnt let me post a pic so I put it in my avatar. That is what I want to get as a tattoo as a memorial for the baby as well as a reminder to people that this does happen more than people want to realize....
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: CT USA
Posts: 12,996
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Hugs, welcome to the board.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
Posts: 13,228
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I think you may have to have 20 posts in order to post a picture.
Did you change the link in your signature or is that the image you want a tattoo of?
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 9,713
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board - I hope you get your sticky BFP soon!
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Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 27
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I dont know what I am doing lol but the picture in my avatar is the tattoo I am getting. It is a pink and blue ribbon with a pink butterfly on it....it is the miscarriage awareness ribbon.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 7,700
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Hun I am sorry to hear about your loss. I have had two early miscarriages. I know they are not easy..... I wish you the best of luck ttcal.. It can be a rough journey, but this is a great group of ladies that are here for you every step of the way. Feel free to vent and get it off your chest anytime.. Many hugs to you.. Oh by the way I love that pic for a tattoo...
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Veteran
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 139
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I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you a good and fast recovery so you can start TTC soon. HUGS.
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Happy Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ohio
Posts: 3,881
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss  I had a missed miscarriage in early May...everyone here is in the same boat, so we're here for you!
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 805
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So sorry!!!
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