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Super Mommy
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I'm 9 dpo and the suspense is killing me. I have a feeling af will arrive but I just want to get it over with so I can start a new cycle. Anyone else in the 2ww?
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I am 8 dpo and afraid to test. What if it's negative, I would be so bummed and what if it's positive, I would freak out. It's sort of a no win situation. Are you having any symptom? I was cramping last night, don't understand why. No sore boobs which I had with my last pregnancy. Not tired either so I don't know if this is our cycle. Wishing you good luck and hope you get a BFP!
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Super Mommy
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Thanks! I hope you get your bfp too! I hope the cramping is your little bean implanting.
I have no symptoms besides sore bbs but I get that right before af anyway.
When are you planning on testing? I've been testing since 7 dpo (I can't help myself) and get nothing but bfns. It's so dissapointing. I keep telling myself that I won't test until 12 dpo but I don't know if I can hold out.
Lots of 
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Krys
“I can be changed by what happens to me, but I refuse to be reduced by it.” -Maya Angelou
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Super Mommy
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I'm in my 2ww too - 8dpo and the suspense is awful. I try so hard not to think about it, but it's a losing battle. I'm hoping to hold out testing until af is due, but I don't know if I can make it or not! Last month I had a chemical and was getting light positives, so I know if I get an early positive I"m not really going to believe it - kwim? I want a big fat positive! lol!
Anyway, good luck to all of us!
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Kailee - 8
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Kaden - 3
& our new baby:
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Yes, good luck to all of us.
Krys, I don't think I will test until I miss my period by one day. Just don't want to look at that negative Test, would rather just see or feel AF coming. So you could actually get a BFP by 8 dpo? I didn't know that, I thought that was too early. Oh boy, I kinda wanna test but I think I should wait and see if I am getting any symptoms in the next couple of days.
Well, hope we all get a BFP 
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I should add that I had some leg cramps today which I only get during pregnancy but then again who knows.
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm just starting the TWW - and I know I'll be going crazy! By the time I hit 8dpo I'll be wanting to POAS, even though I know it's way too early!
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Tobi
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Krys, I was going to say that I didnt know how you were holding out from poas at 9dpo, then I saw your next post!  Good luck this cycle, actually good luck to everyone! lol I cant wait to see what the next few days bring, could you guys start the next ttcal bfp boom? Thanks.
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Super Mommy
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Any updates from anyone? I kinda think I could be pregnant, but I'm also afraid that I'm just getting my hopes up... Hoping to wait a few more days until testing!
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Rachel
blessed to share my life with
Brian - greatest husband ever
Kailee - 8
Gracie - 4
Kaden - 3
& our new baby:
Mollie Faith - 3/7/11
our angels born sleeping, always missed & loved:
Emilee -18 weeks, 11/2004
Samuel - 17 weeks, 12/2009
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Funnygal I am in the same boat. I am terrified to test so no news yet. I don't think I will test till Friday. When will you test? Since my D&C everything has been off and I don't know if my symptoms are real or just my body trying to get back to normal. Hope we all get a big FAT BFP LINE!
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Super Mommy
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Well, I tested today at 12 dpo and nothing. I feel af loke cramps so I'm pretty sure I'm out this month.
 for you ladies. I can't wait to see some bfps! So when are you testing? Any symptoms?
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Krys
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Super Mommy
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Krys - I'm so sorry. Your chart is so pretty, too! Maybe you'll be surprised yet...
Well, I caved and tested yesterday afternoon (11dpo) on an impulse and got a faint bfp (on an ept test - I know, I know, but that's what I had), anyway, but my temp went down a little this morning, so I don't know what to think....
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Rachel
blessed to share my life with
Brian - greatest husband ever
Kailee - 8
Gracie - 4
Kaden - 3
& our new baby:
Mollie Faith - 3/7/11
our angels born sleeping, always missed & loved:
Emilee -18 weeks, 11/2004
Samuel - 17 weeks, 12/2009
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Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by funnygal
Krys - I'm so sorry. Your chart is so pretty, too! Maybe you'll be surprised yet...
Well, I caved and tested yesterday afternoon (11dpo) on an impulse and got a faint bfp (on an ept test - I know, I know, but that's what I had), anyway, but my temp went down a little this morning, so I don't know what to think....
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That's awesome!  Do you have pics? I love to see positive pee sticks! What's wrong with ept tests? I've been using ic's, I wonder if it's not as sensitive as other tests.
I wouldn't worry about the temp dip as long as it doesn't fall below the cover line.
I hope this is the start of a ttcal baby boom!
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I am testing Sunday, at least I will try to wait until then. I am 7 DPO today. I am not feeling preggo though, and I have always known before testing in the past.
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Super Mommy
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Krys- I did take a picture, but I'm gonna wait and see what happens over the next couple of days. I've read that the ept tests can give convincing evaps, so even though I saw the line in the 10 minutes, it makes me a little nervous. Did you change your o date?
Good luck Lauren!
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Rachel
blessed to share my life with
Brian - greatest husband ever
Kailee - 8
Gracie - 4
Kaden - 3
& our new baby:
Mollie Faith - 3/7/11
our angels born sleeping, always missed & loved:
Emilee -18 weeks, 11/2004
Samuel - 17 weeks, 12/2009
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Platinum Supermommy
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I used an EPT with Wes, and it was right. ; )
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Wesley (7.16.09) Severe GERD, FTT, EoE, Gastroparesis, Sensory Processing issues, Tube fed only
Ruby (2.16.11) GERD, RAD, FTT, part-time G-tube fed
after Nissen Fundoplication and Hiatal hernia repair 10/25/11
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I have been cramping everyday since the past 3 days so I am convinced AF is coming on Friday or Saturday. I feel them on the sides (just like o pains) and into my legs.
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June 10th, 2010, 05:28 AM
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Super Mommy
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I got a "not pregnant" today on a digital test.  This is so hard....
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Rachel
blessed to share my life with
Brian - greatest husband ever
Kailee - 8
Gracie - 4
Kaden - 3
& our new baby:
Mollie Faith - 3/7/11
our angels born sleeping, always missed & loved:
Emilee -18 weeks, 11/2004
Samuel - 17 weeks, 12/2009
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June 10th, 2010, 08:55 AM
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Super Mommy
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I am in 2ww window. 8dpo, going crazy! Trying not to think about when I will test, but I know as time gets near I will be driving myself nuts. I don't buy test and have them on hand, bc I would use them daily LOL!!! Good Luck ladies, I hope all of us get bfp this go around!
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June 10th, 2010, 09:12 AM
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Super Mommy
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Funnygal - Evap lines are evil. You must be going crazy, I know I would be. I'm rally hoping it's a bfp fpr you. I don't think digitals are as sensitive, so maybe you just tested too early.
I changed my o date since af is not here yet but I know she will be. My LP is usually only 11-12 days so if AF comes today or tomorrow I'll be right on track. I had my m/c exactly one month ago so I wasn't really expecting to get pg but just the act of ttc makes me feel happy.
Baby Athena - I'm sorry about AF coming. Sometimes you just know she's on her way. But I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you anyway.
Good luck Lauren and Happy Mommy!
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Krys
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