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June 17th, 2010, 01:04 PM
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Tobi
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Hi ladies,
I just called my Dr for the results of the preg test and it was less than 2. Negative. So for 7 days now, Ive had bouts of intense nausea, where my mouth is watering and Im thinking Im about to puke. Seriously having to pee all the time, (My daughter says, Mom pees every 10 minutes!) And negative? I dont get it. I really really dont get it.
So as some of you know I said that if I got a bfn this cycle, Im going to take a break from ttc. Not even ntnp. Im going to be preventing at this point.
Ill be around, cause you all have become so important to me.
Last edited by tobi4; June 17th, 2010 at 03:07 PM.
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June 17th, 2010, 01:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am sorry hun.
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June 17th, 2010, 01:58 PM
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Veteran
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Location: New Jersey
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I am so sorry. TTC can be so stressful. I felt the same when I TTC for my daughter for 9 months. But you will get your BFP when u least expect it!!!! I am sure of that. Hang in there. HUGS.
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June 17th, 2010, 02:20 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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(((HUGS))) I'm so sorry. Are you sure about the NTNP? What about trying that for a couple of months? You never know.
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June 17th, 2010, 02:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Tobi, I'm so sorry to hear this. Maybe you ovulated a little later than you thought and it's still early. Hang in there until the witch comes. I'm sorry 
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June 17th, 2010, 03:05 PM
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Tobi
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I dont think I would be able to ntnp, I guess Im so obsessive with things in my life that its hard to pull back and not do something 'all the way'. And I know each month Ill be wrapped up with "Am I pregnant?, Maybe I shouldnt be doing this, that and the other' you girls know what the 2ww is like. I know I need to pull back from it. I need to feel stronger, I need to totally give up smoking, I want dbf to stop drinking, I want to start exercising to feel better.
I think its all very rational, but what I really feel is, Ive given up. Its actually ripping my heart out. I feel like Im saying goodbye to our little one for good now. Im one of those people who believe our babies come back to us, when the time is right. Its the only thought that has kept me hoping. Im 39. It is what it is. Maybe it just isnt meant to be.
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Tobi, I'm so sorry to hear this. Maybe you ovulated a little later than you thought and it's still early. Hang in there until the witch comes. I'm sorry |
Thanks Annette, unfortunately I used the fertility monitor so I can be pretty sure I ovulated on schedule this month. Thank you though for trying to make me feel more positive! Its why I love you girls.
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June 17th, 2010, 03:32 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Aww Tobi what a hard decision, but I know how emotionally draining TTC is, and I understand how the NTNP thing would still be consuming because we have come to know our bodies and cycles so well that it would always still be on the back of your mind. Maybe you will get a surprise when your least expecting it and not stressing over TTC, one can hope anyway. I'm glad you'll be sticking around still.
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June 17th, 2010, 03:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm really sorry ....I hope you aren't away for long.
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June 17th, 2010, 05:49 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry, Tobi. I understand though, it's so hard to emotionally hope every month and then be disappointed. I told dh last week, I want to ntnp, but I don't know if I can do it.
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