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June 20th, 2010, 03:17 PM
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I know cycles can be messed up after a miscarriage, but doesn't it seem like it would come late and not way early? I just ovulated 5 days ago, and I started spotting 3 days after that...I've never had a short cycle...After I had Ella my cycle was 36 days, when normally it's around 26....My period seemed to be normal, I ovulated on either cd 13 or 14, so that wasn't anything out of the ordinary...My spotting is still pink, but it picked up a little bit, and i'm pretty sure it's AF coming.
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June 20th, 2010, 07:57 PM
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Hmmm, are you sure it's AF... is it heavy-ish? Anything is possible as far as cycle weirdness after loss. However you're kinda close in the implantation phase of dpo too... hard to say for sure and out of anyone you'd definitely know your body's signals best as to when AF is coming.
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June 20th, 2010, 08:11 PM
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it's not heavy at all...it's a pale pink, or a tan color, but a couple of times there was more than others...Last time I even saw 2 specks of red in it, but it didn't look like blood....I'm just an emotional wreck because this is what happened in my last pregnancy...I have half my mind telling me that, and my other half telling me no way...I feel like i'm going crazy...I'm sorry for kind of going off, I just have had a bad day and needed to vent...I haven't told my husband about anything that's going on...I'm also really moody, but nothing like pms moody, just kind of down, i'm tired, i've had a couple cramps and my boobs have hurt a couple times...Which can all be signs of PMS lol, so I guess it's just a waiting game.
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June 21st, 2010, 05:40 AM
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I had some spotting around CD21 and ovulated around that time. Fingers crossed that it might be some implantation bleeding and not AF. Hugs.
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June 21st, 2010, 06:57 AM
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I'm sorry Megan. The second guessing yourself all the time is a killer, huh? Hopefully you'll know one way or the other soon! It took my body a couple of cycles to get back on track after my 2nd-tri loss...
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June 22nd, 2010, 01:28 PM
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How did it work out? Was it AF? I have the same thing happening. NTNP here... and I am not tracking my cycle days but I had some spotting this afternoon and was like "Is it time for AF already?" come to find out I am cd 16... so weird.
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June 22nd, 2010, 02:41 PM
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Same thing is going on...Actually I only had just a spot of light brown this morning and nothing since...So this is day 5 of spotting...It's never gotten heavier, except yesterday there were some red streaks in it once, but I wouldn't even consider it blood.
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June 22nd, 2010, 03:00 PM
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It still sounds promising, I know it's hard to get hopeful after having multiple losses Megan  please don't give up... sorry that there's been some really bad days for you. I understand, been sorta down as well and not myself. Emotional.
Here's to praying we join March DDC
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June 22nd, 2010, 03:13 PM
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MEgan your temps look good.. Do you think it could be baby getting nice and cozy?
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June 22nd, 2010, 03:35 PM
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Thanks guys! I've been really really down...It's so hard to have any hope...If it's AF I wish she would just start, even though I'm not supposed to till Sunday, or monday, maybe even tuesday (Next week)...We are going on vacation in 2 weeks, I just don't want her to show up then, that would be horrible!!!
Lindsey, i'm not sure, I let myself think for a split of a second that maybe I could be pregnant, but most of the time I don't think I Could be...I don't want to get my hopes up and then be let down...I've never gotten pregnant the first time trying, I don't know why I would this time lol
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June 22nd, 2010, 04:54 PM
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It still sounds promising, I know it's hard to get hopeful after having multiple losses Megan  please don't give up... sorry that there's been some really bad days for you. I understand, been sorta down as well and not myself. Emotional.
Here's to praying we join March DDC
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June 22nd, 2010, 05:07 PM
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I hope so..I think there will be a BFP boom on the TTCAL board soon
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