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June 22nd, 2010, 03:25 PM
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But I posted about thinking about TTC and then went on vacation...lol

I talked to DH a little...his short answer was "I'm not ready for you to be pregnant again yet." I told him that I didn't want to be pregnant again right now but maybe sooner than we had previously talked about.

So then we agreed that we couldn't decide anything until my dental work was done. But then at my appointment today (I had to get a permanent crown put on, no biggie at all, was there about 20 minutes), the secretary brought up a valid point: my insurance covers 80% of fillings. I've currently maxed out my insurance for the year, but the cavities on my upper teeth (I went ahead and made the appointment for the other side of my lowers because there's a pretty sensitive tooth there) can wait until January if I'm careful, and it makes more financial sense to wait and let insurance pay for 80% rather than pay for it all out-of-pocket.

But even without the whole TTC idea, I think that just getting it done so they don't get worse is worth paying out-of-pocket for it all.

Bah. So Matt's "thinking" about it. Which means he isn't really, but I've brought it up.

I don't want to be pregnant again yet, really, not right now. I don't even really want another baby yet. I'm content with the two I have for now. But I just feel like there's someone waiting for me...if that makes sense.
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June 25th, 2010, 12:29 PM
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Oh Britt that makes total scense! I am so sorry I am just seeing this post!

Please don't ever feel like a hit and run! TTCAL is such a hard place to be.. and we all understand that. When you ready to jump on that train full force.. we'll be here. If you need to back off... We'll be here too!!!! We will always be here no matter what!!
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June 25th, 2010, 02:55 PM
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I think it makes sense also Even though you're only thinking about TTC in the near future right now, I like having you around on this board.
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June 25th, 2010, 03:57 PM
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I hope you and DH are get on the same page soon! Many of us have been in the spot of wondering when is the right time to TTCAL, so please don't feel out of place! Although I can tell you that hanging around here only makes you want to TTC more
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June 26th, 2010, 07:13 AM
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I hope you and DH are get on the same page soon! Many of us have been in the spot of wondering when is the right time to TTCAL, so please don't feel out of place! Although I can tell you that hanging around here only makes you want to TTC more
Yep, it already has. lol!!
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June 26th, 2010, 09:33 PM
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I hope he comes around sooner rather than later.
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June 26th, 2010, 10:14 PM
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Awe, ya know our men think about allot... but not nearly as much as us as women do. So hopefully he'll warm up to the idea as well

I know what you mean about feeling like you're family isn't complete and there's a little one or little ones out there trying to make their way to your family. We feel that way as well
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