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June 24th, 2010, 06:16 AM
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Hi Ladies, not sure if many of you will remember me...I hope none of you will and that will mean that those that were here have graduated and are into a healthy, sticky pregnancy by now.

We're still trying. This month we take off and start again after AF starts in beginning of July. I don't understand why it was so easy to conceive my first two...and ever since our m/c (can't believe it's been almost a year) we just can't get pregnant. I took at least 2 months off all Boards, and longer than that from here because I was just getting too anxious and upset over it all. I feel a little stronger now, though still very depressed at times. I know in God's time we'll get pregnant if it's meant to be, but it's so hard to underrstand why this is happeneing.

Anyway, just wanted to touch base. I hope you all are well and I wish you all very sticky little beans very, very soon!!!! For those of you who had finally gotten your BFP's, I hope wiht all hope in my heart that they stuck and that you're feeling wonderful!!!
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June 24th, 2010, 06:24 AM
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((hugs))

I can understand your frustration, it has never taken less than a year for me to get pregnant.

It is so hard
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June 24th, 2010, 09:45 AM
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Hello. I am sorry that it is taking a while to conceive again. I hope you will only be here a short time before you get you sticky bean.
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June 24th, 2010, 10:30 AM
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I am so sorry you have been TTC so long since your loss. It is very frustrating. I hope your BFP comes soon!
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June 24th, 2010, 12:03 PM
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Thank you Amy, Nicole and Katie.

It's awful that so many of us struggle so hard...but I guess at the same time it makes our little ones (already here and those still dreamt of) that much more priceless.

I'm very frustrated and cannot help but think that the pregnancy I lost last August was my "last chance" just because now we keep getting BFN's. I also think I had a chemical in December...that's what my ob's opinion was, I'm not sure I believe that though.

I hope we all are holding precious 2011 bundles in our arms!
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June 24th, 2010, 02:48 PM
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Welcome back to the board, I'm sorry that you haven't gotten your BFP yet. TTC is very frustrating, especially after a loss it's emotionally draining. Hopefully now that your back your stay will be very short.
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June 25th, 2010, 11:17 AM
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HUGS... Welcome back to the board. I hope your stay here is short.. and your BFP comes quickly!
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June 25th, 2010, 11:18 AM
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Thank you Kelly, it is very frustrating and draining. How I wish we all could just get our BFP's, they could stick and that would be that. I pray for all you girls all the time...and other ladies everywhere who are struggling to get their sticky little beans. It's so hard.
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June 25th, 2010, 11:59 AM
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I'm very frustrated and cannot help but think that the pregnancy I lost last August was my "last chance" just because now we keep getting BFN's.
I feel that way everyday....

Welcome back and I hope you get pregnant soon!
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