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June 24th, 2010, 07:00 AM
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After 3 or so normal-for-me cycles, I'm not reverting to the old pattern of skipping periods, but testing bfn. Like this morning. My period is today now 3 days late, but bfn with fmu. Oh well. I'm not sweating it. What choice do I have? Care about it and be swept up with negative feelings or just let it fly. I chose just to let it fly.

I have a gut feeling I'm going to get pregnant the second I lose around 20 pounds. My wonderful mother in law bought me a membership at curves. So far, I've been 4 times and where my thighs rub together is getting smaller, my muscles are getting harder and my legs are slowly becoming sexy. The number on the scale hasn't changed much, but I'm not expecting it to, since muscle is heavier than fat. Never thought I'd say this about a gym, but I actually have fun at curves.

TTC isn't on hold, but we find we're not trying but not preventing, just hoping.
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June 24th, 2010, 09:36 AM
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Well, I'm sorry it's a bfn, but hopefully the Curves will help it! I hope you see a big impact soon - it's such a great feeling getting into shape
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June 24th, 2010, 09:41 AM
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Sorry about the BFN but it does feel great to get into shape.
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June 24th, 2010, 10:32 AM
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Irregular cycles.... SO FRUSTRATING. They are truly evil. I hope you either get a BFP or AF soon. Good luck with the weight loss. It is good for you, and also a nice distraction from TTC!
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June 24th, 2010, 10:39 AM
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Irregular cycles.... SO FRUSTRATING. They are truly evil. I hope you either get a BFP or AF soon. Good luck with the weight loss. It is good for you, and also a nice distraction from TTC!
Thanks exactly why I'm working out. Something else to do, that to me, feels more worthwhile than just throwing myself at work. Now, my job has been moved to the back burner. I'm still there, but as soon as we're able, I'd like to leave Kmart.

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Well, I'm sorry it's a bfn, but hopefully the Curves will help it! I hope you see a big impact soon - it's such a great feeling getting into shape
I feel more energetic already and I'm sleeping much more normally.

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Sorry about the BFN but it does feel great to get into shape.
Yup, and I'm enjoying that. I feel better and more energetic.
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June 24th, 2010, 02:50 PM
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I love your attitude and motivation to workout.. If you don't mind me asking what kind of excercises do you do at curves to work your thighs and get that smaller.. I need to work on mine and my butt and stomache..
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June 24th, 2010, 03:08 PM
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I'm sorry about your bfn, but I'm glad you're doing something for yourself! And I agree with Nicole, irregular cycles are truly evil!
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June 24th, 2010, 08:33 PM
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I love your attitude and motivation to workout.. If you don't mind me asking what kind of excercises do you do at curves to work your thighs and get that smaller.. I need to work on mine and my butt and stomache..
Curves has workout machines designed for a woman's body. It's working on me already. We do squat type exercise on one machine, lunge type on another, cruches on another (without killing your back), something equal to a curl for arm toning, and I could go on. Between all the machines are small aerobics mats and you can do any kind of move you can dream up on those. The workout is very low impact (I have feet/ankle and knee problems) so it doesn't bother me at all. I really recommend you join if that's something you feel you need. It's better than any other gym I think. The best part is, it's all ladies.

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I'm sorry about your bfn, but I'm glad you're doing something for yourself! And I agree with Nicole, irregular cycles are truly evil!
Right now, I'm enjoying working out. I wouldn't be the least bit disappointed if I get pregnant now, but I am very excited about looking as good as I used to.
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Ugh, sorry about the screwy cycle coming back

But I'm so glad to here you positive atittude and doing something for health a positive lifestyle change
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HUGS.... Sorry you are going through screwed up cycles... Curves is a great place!! Can't wait for you to post your sexy BFP!!!!
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