After 3 or so normal-for-me cycles, I'm not reverting to the old pattern of skipping periods, but testing bfn. Like this morning. My period is today now 3 days late, but bfn with fmu. Oh well. I'm not sweating it. What choice do I have? Care about it and be swept up with negative feelings or just let it fly. I chose just to let it fly.
I have a gut feeling I'm going to get pregnant the second I lose around 20 pounds. My wonderful mother in law bought me a membership at curves. So far, I've been 4 times and where my thighs rub together is getting smaller, my muscles are getting harder and my legs are slowly becoming sexy.

The number on the scale hasn't changed much, but I'm not expecting it to, since muscle is heavier than fat. Never thought I'd say this about a gym, but I actually have fun at curves.
TTC isn't on hold, but we find we're not trying but not preventing, just hoping.