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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: California
Posts: 3,019
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Waiting to O, hoping you'll catch the egg?
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The TWW to test, hoping that you caught the egg?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
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Hands down, 300% waiting to O!!!
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Murfreesboro, TN
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waiting for O cause that's what I am waiting for now... but once I O then my answer will change to TWW to test lol
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3,613
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Butterflywings02
waiting for O cause that's what I am waiting for now... but once I O then my answer will change to TWW to test lol
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lol Elizabeth! Funny 
Its the 2ww for me thats the hardest. Its then that I worry and obsess about every little twinge, ache or absolutely anything that I notice with my body. Then I worry about 'should I have a beer?" "Should I move these boxes?" etc. Stresses me right out!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Virginia
Posts: 3,871
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I have to agree with Elizabeth. Since my loss my cycles are now 35 days so it takes forever to O then forever to test! They both just bad! LOL
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 13,277
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Both are excruciating, but for me waiting to O and hoping we catch the egg is a little worse. Whenever we're TTC it seems my body likes to toy with me and O later than normal and then the kids never want to go to sleep on their own so that we can have time to ourselves. So I'm constantly worried about whether we did enough to catch the egg, but then that leads into the 2WW... So...
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
Posts: 39,665
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Quote:
Originally Posted by tobi4 plus1more
lol Elizabeth! Funny 
Its the 2ww for me thats the hardest. Its then that I worry and obsess about every little twinge, ache or absolutely anything that I notice with my body. Then I worry about 'should I have a beer?" "Should I move these boxes?" etc. Stresses me right out!
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That's the way I am. Before ovulation it's sort of out of my hands, but afterward the things I do could possibly affect the outcome and so I go a little crazy. Should I take this ibuprofin even though my back is killing me and tylenol won't do a thing? I might be pregnant...so no. It's easier to accept the restrictions when I know I am, but when I only might be? Drives me up the wall.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 561
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For me, it's the 2ww. I always know which week I'm going to O by the crazy amounts of ewcm. But waiting to test has always been hard for me.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 2,808
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Both  Actually I think the 2ww to O is harder for me. Even with the Clomid I'm scared I won't O. I worry about whether or not we are BD'ing enough. Worry DH's work schedule won't allow us to BD enough. I won't actually relax a little until after my CD 21 b/w to make sure I O'd. After that it's out of my control.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: California
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Seems like the responses are about 50/50. For me, waiting to O is the absolute hardest. I worry about if we're DTD enough, if our timing is right, if we're taking enough vitamins, if our schedules will line up, and so on and on. It's torture for me, because I feel like TTC is fully resting on my decisions. During the TWW what has already happened or not is out of my hands at that point.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: TX
Posts: 2,396
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I think waiting to test is the hardest. I o fairly soon after af so its not a long wait for me. I hate waiting and waiting to find out if we are PG or not.
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