[RoadToDallas]

Hey Everyone. Its been a long time since i been here, ive been lurking though just hurts to much to no be getting a bfp after all these tries so i thought staying off here would take my mind of ttc but i had to come back for this day.

Today Was my EDD. July 3rd. A Day i will never forget. A day ive been dreading for months and been telling my best friends and everything about and not ONE person called or even attempted to seem like they remember and i am ANGRY. I'm angry no one seems to care, and im bothered by it soo much that i DONT want to talk to them, atleast for the day. Im trying not to seem childish but i cant believe my best friend forgot. The one that was there with me through everything. And i woke up today with a postivie mind set saying that you know i'll be pregnant soon and i don't need to Be sad and just remember my bean! But everyone forgetting just UGHH made me soo angry.. Am I Being Unresonable ?

[brandimomof2]

I am sorry for your loss. I am sorry no one remembered. No one remembered mine either. Its very hard. No one seems to understand except the one going through it or one that has been through it before. I am so sorry.

[tobi4]

Im really sorry you are feeling this way. Sometimes when we need support from the people in our lives, we have to ask for it. Like you are doing right now. Otherwise people dont know. Please dont suffer through this by yourself, let the people who care about you know how hard a day you are having. It would be ideal if people remembered what we need them to, or said the things we need to hear. I know with my dbf I have to take him by the hand and lead him. I used to get angry (and still do sometimes) but I realized that until Im willing to share my needs with him, I cant get angry with him for not just knowing. My feelings are my responsibility, if I deal with them on my own, thats my choice. BUT if he still doesnt get it, after Ive told him, then I can get mad!
If you are feeling this way, then you might have to be the one to take the first step, to get what you need. I imagine that knowing they forgot, they will feel terribly, and from seeing youor posts before I know that you wouldnt want that for your friends. So take that step, it will benefit all of you. ~~hugs~~

[KAB]

I'm so sorry that today has turned out to be hard for you. EDD's are such a hard thing to go through, especially alone. I agree with Tobi, that sometimes you have to ask for the support that you need. I am glad that you came here though, that's what we are here for. I hope the day will turn around for you.

[ohnicole]

I'm sorry that today has been such a hard day for you. It is hard to go through an EDD and have it be SUCH an important date to you, and realize that no one else even remembers that it is anything special.

I agree with the other girls that sometimes you just have to ask for support and you can't expect everyone to know what you need. But I also agree that sometimes, having to ask for support JUST SUCKS. Sometimes what you really want is for someone to think about what is going on with you and just ask if you need anything, or say that they're sorry, or just acknowledge the day. Unfortunately, it doesn't always work out that way.

I hope that you were able to get through the rest of the day with a little less anger, and that you wake up tomorrow feeling a little better. Hugs.

[RoadToDallas]

Thanks Everyone For the support and advice. I felt like i shouldnt have to ask , so i didnt and just kept it to myself. I was upset NO one remembered not that i needed a hug or some special treatment, but how could u say u cared but you didnt remember!? But im fine now. Relaxed and just enjoying my time off. Thanks again