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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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My beta's dropped to 12. it's over, i'm just waiting to bleed now. Shouldn't be long. Thanks for all of your kind words and well wishes. This being my 6th loss, i need to think on this for a while.
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I'm so sorry. Hugs.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
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Oh I was so hoping it would go up. I am so so sorry. We will be praying for you.
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 I'm so sorry honey. that's so unfair.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
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I'm really sorry. This sucks. I understand needing time to think about it. When I had my 7th loss I told DH that I was done. I just didn't think I could take any more. It took a few months, but baby fever proved stronger than my fear.
I'm really sorry that you are going through this. I will keep you in my prayers.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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((HUGS))
I am so very sorry. I cannot imagine going through this 5 more times.
Have you had any sort of medical work up to find out why this is happening to you? I seem to remember hearing that after 3 they usually start investigating to find out if there is a known cause.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
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Oh hunnie! I am so sorry! Super massive big hugs for you. Its just not fair. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. Even if you just need someone to listen. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
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I am so sorry. I wish there was more that I could do for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine going thru all of this 6 times. HUGS!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2008
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I know how you feel, I just had my 6th loss in May. I am so torn.
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
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Oh Michelle I am so so so so very sorry. Please make sure you get some sleeping aid or something from your doctor. I am so heartbroken for you.
From a book on loss I have been reading:
When we are suffering intense grief, it is almost hard to remember what it felt like to be happy. Particularly when loss comes suddenly, it is as though we have been shunted into a different world where nothing has the same meaning it had before. In fact, we are startled, offended almost, that people seem to be conducting business as usual.
I wish I could take your pain away Michelle. I am so sorry. We are here for you.
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Oh sweety.. I am so so sorry to hear this.... It is so unfair.. I really hope that they can get you some sort of answers.. No one should have to keep going through loss after loss... You will be in my prayers.. Hang in there.. We are all here for you..
Missy I like that qoute..
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HUGS... I am so sorry... HUGS
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2010
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i am so sorry you did not get better news today. Please know that we are all thinking of you.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
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I am so sorry that this turned into another loss for you. We are all here for you. Huge hugs.
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Michelle  I'm so sad for you honey and most sorry that this is happening.
Missy has a beautiful quote there
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When we are suffering intense grief, it is almost hard to remember what it felt like to be happy. Particularly when loss comes suddenly, it is as though we have been shunted into a different world where nothing has the same meaning it had before. In fact, we are startled, offended almost, that people seem to be conducting business as usual.
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This is not what I'd ever thought for you in my wildest dreams...  you're a wonderful woman Michelle and in spite of everything I pray that peace fills your heart, pain is temporary and that you come out on top! I'm sorry that I don't have the most helpful words to say right now, don't think anything is going to give you comfort as painful and devastating as this is. I don't understand why it happens to us repeatedly... I hope the doctor planned on doing something, any more testing?
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2009
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I'm so very sorry for your loss, and that you have had to go through this too many times. You will be in my prayers.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
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I"m so so sorry.
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I am so sorry hun. When you are ready to talk, we will be here. ~hugs~
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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I'm so very very sorry for your loss! I wish you didn't have to go through this again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. (((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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