[ldovey83]

Not mad at my cousin just the situation I guess.. So I have been seeing comments on my cousins page about her napping alot and not feeling well, and we were suppost to see them this weekend and I had a gut feeling it was to make an annoucement.. Well I didn't get to see them cause she wasnt feeling well and schedule conflicts so I wrote them and asked what happened. Well when she wrote back she once again said she wasn't feeling well, and so I wrote her a message and asked.. Sure enough she came back and said wow you figured it out by those comments.. I thought I was being more careful.. I told her I had a gut feeling.. Well she is around 6wks pregnant, and so if I was still pregnant I would've been so close to her.. I am so mad that I had to looose my baby and I can't be pregnant with her.. That would've been so cool.. I am happy for her don't get me wrong, but I am upset that I can't be celebrating my baby with her too.. One of those things..

[ohnicole]

Hugs, Lindsey.

We've all been there, feeling bad for being sad about someone else's happy news. But don't beat yourself up about it. You can be happy for her and sad for your own loss. (Even if you are feeling more sad for yourself than happy for her ). I hope you feel a little better about it soon!

[Celena]

Lindsey, I'm sorry honey!

I know how you feel, my cousin and I went thru this as well... and actually prior to it I was going thru my 1st loss with DH, then she went thru a loss and I helped her thru it as she had never been thru that before... well she got pg and I had as well but I lost mine, she is due pretty soon.

So I know honey, totally bummed for you I know you will have a sticky bean and successful pregnancy in the near future! I can feel it for ya!

[LisaG825]

Sorry. I know how you feel though. I had friends and family pg too.

[BeccaM]

Lindsey, Im so sorry you have to go thru this and I know exactly how you feel. I wish I could make it better for you. HUGZ!

[missy123]

I am so sorry Lindsay... Even though we want the best for our friends and family sometimes it brings back our own pain ten fold. ((Hugs))

[MomtoCTSK]

Hugs! Fingers crossed you won't be too far behind her now

[~InHisHands~]

[luvmykids623]

I'm so sorry Lindsey. I know how that feels, and it stinks!

[SD Mommy]

I know the feeling. A friend of mine announced her pg a week after my first m/c and then 2 days after I found out about my blighted ovum in my second p/g another friend announced hers. It's like you feel happy for them but at the same time it stings a bit. You still have a chance to catch that eggie and be pg at the same time. :dothugs:

[ldovey83]

Thanks ladies.. You all always have a way of making me feel better. I told DH about it lastnight and let him know how I am happy for them and how it hurts at the same time.. Thanks for all the hugs and just listening and being there for me..

[brandimomof2]

Oh gosh, I know how you feel. A really good friend of mine got pg without even trying. She is almost due now. When I had my m/c my cousin's were both pg. One lost her baby as well but the other gave birth to a healthy baby.

Today some friends made a comment about my other friends baby and telling that her girls would be rockers. It hit me the wrong way and I went to crying. It just hurts that I am still not pg and my friend that wasnt even trying got pg and is about to have her baby. I just felt so hurt. I am happy for my friend but it hurts that we are not having ours. Soon though, soon.

Hugs

[ldovey83]

I am sorry Brandi.. We all know the pain.. I guess that is why it is so nice to be able to turn to all these wonderful ladies and just get it off our chest.. HUGS!!