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July 11th, 2010, 12:36 AM
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third time round.

im not that upset really, it become like the norm for me. get pregnant... start to bleed... mc.... start again. the first one i grieve heavily and the next one i was pretty upset and now this one... when i saw the bfp at 8dpo i thought...hmmm so when are you going to leave me.

i am grateful that it happened early.
i am gateful that i can get pregnant.
i am grateful that i have a husband who understands what im going through and is will to try again.
i am grateful that i have my little girl who is an absolute miracle.

and i am grateful that i have doctors that will help me to have another baby.

i just needed to get this out. i hope you ladies dont mine.

its so nice to have this place to come to when this happens.
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July 11th, 2010, 04:30 AM
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HUGS... I hate to Welcome any of our ladies back... But it sounds like you are in a good place to get back to TTC.. HUGS.. I will be thinking of you, and hope you sticky, BFP comes quickly
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July 11th, 2010, 06:12 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you get your sticky bfp very soon.
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July 11th, 2010, 10:47 AM
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Sorry for your loss. I agree you get numb to the pain, but it is still there. I think that every time I get pregnant. Last time I even tried to open a bet with DH on how long the pregnancy would last...
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July 11th, 2010, 11:02 AM
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Sorry for your loss. I agree you get numb to the pain, but it is still there. I think that every time I get pregnant. Last time I even tried to open a bet with DH on how long the pregnancy would last...
i know it sound sick right? i did that this time too, when dh saw the lines he was happy and i said lets see how long this one stays with us... sick i know but its a way of dealing with it i guess.

it really is the strangest situation.

we try sooo hard to get pregnant and once we get pregnant it becomes the most nerve wrecking time of our lives. it make ttcing look frikken easy!!!
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July 11th, 2010, 11:05 AM
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Yeah, it's easier to be numb to it, then to get excited and then let down....
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July 11th, 2010, 11:30 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you get a sticky BFP soon!
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July 11th, 2010, 02:31 PM
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& WB! I hope you can conceive a sticky bean soon & that you have a wonderful DH & DD is so awesome.
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July 11th, 2010, 02:39 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through another loss. I hope that you will soon get your sticky bean.
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