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July 13th, 2010, 07:43 PM
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I am pretty sure I am miscarrying. I hate to even say it but last night I started cramping pretty bad. I figured it was just growing pains. Well the cramps lasted all night and into this morning. When I got up to go to the bathroom I was bleeding. Bright red blood. Lots of it. I've been bleeding non-stop since then. Every time I get up to go to the bathroom more just trickles into the toilet. And now I am seeing small clots. Like, tiny but there. I got my first beta today and will have another thursday. So I won't know what's going on until Friday! I hate this. My heart is broken. I don't know how things can be ok with as much as I am bleeding and as painful as the cramps are. They are just like my af cramps, and I get those bad due to endometriosis. I am sorry. I am just hurting physically and mentally. I want to prepare myself. Will I know for sure if and when it's all over? This is a new (and unwanted) experience.
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July 13th, 2010, 08:06 PM
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Hugs, I hope the you are not M/C. Sometimes blood does happen in early pregnancy and it is for several reasons. Unfortunately the only way to know if you are miscarrying is your betas. Fingers crossed that this is not the case. If you are having one it is different for everyone. Mine was an early loss and it went quickly as others have not. I am so sorry again. It sucks not knowing and constantly worrying.
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July 13th, 2010, 08:36 PM
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I am so sorry for the stress you are going through hun!! I can only tell you what happened to me... everyone is different and some do bleed during the first trimester of pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies. I hope this is the case for you hun! I started bleeding bright red blood and I started to have contraction like cramping. This happened for about a day and then I miscarried the baby. I pray you and your baby are just fine. Betas will tell you what is happening! I will pray for you hun!!! please keep us posted!
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July 13th, 2010, 09:21 PM
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Praying for you from afar. Having a miscarriage or just having thoughts of a possible miscarriage is heartbreaking. I had my MC at 14 weeks, and although I felt like my world was crumbling, I now look back and see that it was just a bump in the road. It didn't change my husband and I's reasons for wanting a family nor did it scare us away. When we finally do have a child, I think it'll just show us how blessed we truly are *hugs* know that we all love you and will be thinking of you.
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July 14th, 2010, 12:30 AM
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I am so sorry your going through this. I know it seems hopeless, but there are stories of women who have had this happen and still gone on to carry full term babies. Sometimes its a "vanishing twin" syndrome where you lose a twin and the other stays put...but you wont know until friday. I will say that no matter what happens we are all here for you. Hang in there ......
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July 14th, 2010, 07:05 AM
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I am so sorry you are going through this. It is so stressful and heartbreaking. I pray your betas are good and that you are ok. ((Hugs))... We are here for you.
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July 14th, 2010, 08:17 AM
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I am so sorry for what you are going through. I had a miscarriage last week too I was in your due date forum too my name was Suprisedby5. Yes you will know when it is over without being too graphic when I finally passed everything it was clear what it was. Thoughts and prayers for you!
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July 14th, 2010, 08:26 AM
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I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I will pray for you. When I had my M/C I had strong cramps (like a really bad AF and like early labor with my daughter) and bright red bleeding with clots. I hope that isn't what it is for you.
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July 14th, 2010, 08:58 AM
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Thank you all for your kind words. Quick update, couldn't sleep much last night because the cramps were so bad. They are constant with waves that are really bad. Passed a pretty big clot or something last night. Still bleeding heavily today and lots of small clots.
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July 14th, 2010, 09:31 AM
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Do you have a doctor you can go to? I am so sorry honey... ((Hugs))
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July 14th, 2010, 12:55 PM
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HUGS... So sorry you are going through this... I replyed to your Post at Pregnancy Loss... But just wanted to give you more HUGS..
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July 14th, 2010, 08:36 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this.
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