[lex1078]

I've been waiting for this sub-forum for a while now. I really have no where to post since we're really on hold now.

In Nov 2008 we lost identical twin girls at 23 weeks, July 2009 I m/c'd at 9.5 weeks and April 2010 I m/c'd at 6 weeks. After our recent m/c we went to an RE and was told we are perfect candidate for IVF w/ PGS (Preimplantation genetic screening). We were all ready to start this month but due to some issues we are now in limbo about children. It's more me than DH. I have been so back and forth about wanting children that I think I should take time to make sure it's what I want. Of course, lately though it's been a bit stronger cause I have a few friends that are pregnant and I've been seeing pregnant women everywhere. Ugh.. but the process is so expensive and DH just started his own company so money is super tight right now. So, right now it looks like I'll be hanging around here for a bit.

[JessP]

Welcome. I am so sorry for your losses. I know what you mean about being in limbo. Sometimes you want a child so bad and others you think it might not be so bad to hold off or not at all. I hope you guys can afford to do it soon if that is what you are wishing for .