[ashj_1218]

Hi ladies.

I seem to have gotten some conflicting information from my midwife, the doctor who is in practice with her and my GP. I have seen all within the past 4 weeks or so. They all were helping to deal with my loss and health during the MC and D & C. And they all said a different time when we could start trying again.

So now I am utterly confused!! My midwife told me to wait three months from my D & C. My GP said there was no reason to wait at all, as long as I was past the two week point (from the D & C) that we could try for another. My doctor who did the actual procedure said to wait a month, one cycle of getting a normal period and then we could start trying.

Anyone on here have a definative answer? I mean, all of those are fine, but I don't want to risk another loss if I concieve too early. There was no blatant reason for the loss, I don't have any uterine issues, it wasn't hormonal, and it implanted just fine. They said it was most likely an unhealthy egg. So...any light to shed?? I would re-ask a doc...but I got three different answers!! Lol.

[stargatemommy]

You should atleast wait until your next period. Only because it helps date the pregnancy. MC bleeding doesn't count as a period, so it can't be used to date the pregnancy...

[luvmykids623]

My doctors told me different times with my first m/c too. One said three months, one said one, and another said I could start right away. With the first one I waited the three months. The second time I started right away and got pg with DD. There really isn't a definitive answer, it's about what's right for you physically and emotionally, but waiting until you get AF is a good idea so that it makes dating the pregnancy easier.

[Halfbaked]

I was told 2 cycles by one and 1 cycle by another but have read that there really isn't a set amount of time you have to wait. I'm waiting for my first AF just so I can have a better date. I'm hoping my cycles will regulate or I may be waiting a very long time.

[ldovey83]

I've never had a D&C but when I had my eptopic I was told to wait 3 months..With my regular miscarriages I just waited one cycle.
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[ashj_1218]

Thank you so much ladies. It looks like the general consensus is to wait one cyce and that is what I will do I appreciate you clearing it up for me, I understand better now. Hopefully we won't have to wait too long to leave this room behind (not that you aren't great! Lol).

[missy123]

My doctor and midwife both said wait one cycle and then go ahead and TTC again. If your body isn't ready I don't think you will get pregnant.

I hope you are out of here soon!