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August 6th, 2010, 09:21 AM
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I haven't been posting pregnancy updates because I was waiting til I got past my danger points. On Tuesday I turned 14 weeks with no bleeding so I thought this was finally going to happen. Last time I passed the baby at exactly 14 weeks.
Anyway, my OB was nice enough to schedule an US yesterday. DH is leaving next week and will be gone all week. I just needed the reassurance that everything is okay.
We unfortunately, the US showed a still baby measuring 14weeks not moving and with no heartbeat. I beyond devastated. This is my third early second tri loss -- second this year. I am hoping to get a D&C soon but right now the earliest time available is in 2 weeks.
I am pretty sure we will not be TTC again. My OB doesn't want us to TTC again til after we meet with a reproductive specialist but I think we are done.
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August 6th, 2010, 09:26 AM
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I responded on our DDC, but I just wanted to say again how sorry I am that you lost your little one. I will be praying for you. *hugs*
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August 6th, 2010, 09:40 AM
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I'm really sorry  , I too have had 2 2nd trimester losses this year, it's so hard...why can't they give you a D&C for 2 weeks? that doesn't sound safe to me...When I had my miscarriage in April, my dr said that it wasn't safe for me to miscarry on my own because I was so far a long that I could hemorrhage at home...I hope you get some answers, and once again i'm really sorry
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August 6th, 2010, 10:05 AM
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 I am soooo soooo sorry for your loss! 
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August 6th, 2010, 10:17 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. BIG HUGZ!!
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August 6th, 2010, 11:04 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. ((BIG HUGS))
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August 6th, 2010, 02:25 PM
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I am so sorry 
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August 6th, 2010, 02:43 PM
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I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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August 6th, 2010, 03:23 PM
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Oh no, I'm so sorry... Do they have any idea why this keeps happening? I'm so devastated for you...
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August 6th, 2010, 04:03 PM
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Oh my.. *hugs*.. I know there's nothing I can say to comfort you right now, but know that we all care for you and we're here for you when you need us. *hugs*
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August 6th, 2010, 04:15 PM
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Oh honey, I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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August 6th, 2010, 04:19 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this. Hang in there. I will be praying for you!
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August 6th, 2010, 04:56 PM
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So sorry for your loss.(((HUGS)))
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August 7th, 2010, 10:53 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by MeganMomof5
I'm really sorry , I too have had 2 2nd trimester losses this year, it's so hard...why can't they give you a D&C for 2 weeks? that doesn't sound safe to me...When I had my miscarriage in April, my dr said that it wasn't safe for me to miscarry on my own because I was so far a long that I could hemorrhage at home...I hope you get some answers, and once again i'm really sorry |
Unfortunately, there is little room for any surgeries in this city over the summer.
I had a consult with the Dr doing the D&C yesterday and he said that only 5 of the 17 operating rooms in the city are open during the summer. That OBs first time in the OR is in two weeks (19th of August). If things do start on their own then I have to go to the ER and request an Emergency D&C. Of course that means, it will probably be pretty far progressed by that time.
This waiting is very hard. I really don't know what is worse, waiting the two weeks or going thru it on my own again knowing the dangers.
Thanks everyone for your support. I really need it right now.
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August 7th, 2010, 05:09 PM
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Oh no!!! I am so sorry!
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August 7th, 2010, 07:22 PM
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big big hugs, i've had 4 m/c's and i know how devastating they are. especially when you start to believe you might be past the danger point! i've been there. i'm so very very sorry you are going through this!!!! hugs and prayers
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August 7th, 2010, 08:00 PM
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HUGS... I am so sorry...
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August 7th, 2010, 10:09 PM
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I'm so very sorry Karen my heart is with you honey. Is there going to be anyone there to help you, to be with you during this time and maybe help you thru these next couple of weeks since DH is going to be gone? I'm concerned about you honey!
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August 8th, 2010, 06:36 AM
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My MIL is arriving today and I have girlfriends 'on call'. Why does this always happen when DH is away? Last time he was in Asia.
I am numb right now but having horrific nightmares.
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August 8th, 2010, 09:03 AM
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