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August 11th, 2010, 03:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am 8 weeks since LMP, but at 6w4d if you readjust for my crazy cycles. I KNOW 1000% my ovulation day (ultrasound before showing a follie about ready to release an egg, positive OPK the day before, temp rise the day after and sustained, and HCG at 15 DPO in the right range for that amount of DPO)
I GUESS I could allow for maybe 1-2 days' difference.
So I went in for my ultrasound.
The idiot doctor (he REALLY was, the report is full of terrible spelling and grammatical errors, and he told me he "doesn't believe" in temping) saw 2 gestational sacs, both measuring at 5 weeks.
Both empty.
I don't even know if I was having twins or if the sac split and is breaking up.
I'm seeing my real (competant) doctor on Monday, we'll confirm and I'm pretty sure she'll give me a D&C.
I am so angry right now. And so sad.
I skip right over denial.
Everyone keeps telling me to keep hope. I'm sorry, I can't and I won't, not when I KNOW my ovulation date. Hope sucks. So does life.
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August 11th, 2010, 06:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm really sorry. I hope that your real doctor will have good news for you on Monday. Hang in there.
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August 11th, 2010, 06:18 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Boston, MA
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I am so very sorry. I hope that your next appt proves to be a miracle and that you are not losing the babies.
((HUGS))
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August 11th, 2010, 06:27 AM
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just me
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 I'm so sorry honey. I wish you had gotten different news.
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August 11th, 2010, 06:48 AM
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Tobi
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Im so sorry, your are right that does suck. It sucks huge. And I know that right now it feels like your entire life sucks. We have been there as well. Things will get better, they have to. Hugs hun, I wish I could do something to help.
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August 11th, 2010, 06:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am very sorry hun. Please keep us updated.
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August 11th, 2010, 08:50 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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big big hugs to you!!!! i've lost 4 babies myself!!! i'm sooooooo sorry!!!
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August 11th, 2010, 10:37 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry hun.. All I can do is offer hugs.. Hang in there.. Do please keep us posted..
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August 11th, 2010, 02:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Some doctors just have such bad bedside manner. Let us know how things go.
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August 12th, 2010, 05:21 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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August 13th, 2010, 10:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
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Huge hugs. I'm sorry you have to go through this, and with a rude doctor on top of everything.
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