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August 13th, 2010, 08:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I woke up to spotting this morning, and within minutes it turned into bleeding... Now it is dark red and still a light flow, but I have started cramping, and I can feel my cervix opening.. So I know I am loosing this one too.. Please keep me in your prayers I am trying to be strong right now, but I know I am going to break soon... I didn't want to relive this again, and definitely not on the one yr angelversary of my second loss....
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August 13th, 2010, 08:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm soo sooo sorry you are going through this!  I'm praying for you and bean!
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August 13th, 2010, 08:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Sweety, I'm so sorry......
Have you called your doctor?
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August 13th, 2010, 08:28 AM
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HUgs. I think you should give your doctor a call. I'm so sorry.
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August 13th, 2010, 08:33 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Virginia
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 Lindsey I am so so sorry hun... I am praying for you and lil bean. We are here for you.
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August 13th, 2010, 08:42 AM
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I can't go see my DR unless I pay out of pocket.. I have no insurance at this point.. The only thing I could do is go to the ER for them to torture me do an ultrasound blood work sit there all day and be told what I already know.. I would rather not put myself through that a third time.. I am just numb with pain right now.. I am not thinking straight and I just want to go to an island and be alone and cry it out..
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August 13th, 2010, 08:45 AM
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Oh Lindsey, my heart sank when I saw your post....I'm so very sorry
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August 13th, 2010, 08:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hugs to you in your difficult time.
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August 13th, 2010, 08:52 AM
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I saw your post on FB and had to come here even though I am on a JM break. Honey, I am so sorry you are going through this again. It is not fair!!! I am so full of 'whys' right now. And if you want company on that island I am right there with you.
Hugs.
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August 13th, 2010, 08:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry  my heart sank when I saw this.
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August 13th, 2010, 09:05 AM
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Super Mommy
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No, no, no, no, NO! Hearing this makes me so sad. I am so very sorry that you have to go through this, it's just not fair.
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August 13th, 2010, 10:00 AM
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I really am SO sorry.... You'll be in my thoughts today.
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August 13th, 2010, 10:15 AM
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August 13th, 2010, 10:27 AM
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Oh no, Lindsey! I am so sorry that you are going through this again! My thoughts are with you.
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August 13th, 2010, 10:43 AM
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I am so very sorry to hear this. I hope the doctors are going to be able to answer all your whys. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry!
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August 13th, 2010, 10:46 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh, sweetie.  I'll be praying for you.
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August 13th, 2010, 10:55 AM
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Thanks ladies for all the kind words.. Right now I do not want to try again until after I go get tortured some more at the Dr's just to get answers.... That probably won't happen till Jan... I was so hoping to have another one by now, and going on to graduate, but I guess someone upstairs has different plans.. It's so hard to stay positive now..
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August 13th, 2010, 10:55 AM
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linsdey... HUGS.... I really think you need to call your Dr.. I understand that you would have to pay out of pocket... But you need to have this documented, Since you have had so many early losses, Your Dr NEEDS to do something, Can you get on to somekind of assistance? You should have been followed closely, You should have had beta's drawn, your progesterone checked.... I hate that you couldn't have this done... It is not fair.. my heart is breaking for you... HUGS
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August 13th, 2010, 01:20 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 Noooooooooo
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August 13th, 2010, 01:54 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Sweetie, this sucks! You need to be seen. Call your OB and tell him you have no insurance. They usually will lower the price if they know you're paying out of pocket. If you need labs drawn, they should also have financial assistance available for that.
 It's just not fair. My heart is breaking for you
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