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August 16th, 2010, 02:56 PM
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When it finally hits me it's gonna be a rough road... The numbness is kind of wearing off today and it is starting to sink in a little.. Just please bare with me ladies..
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August 16th, 2010, 03:02 PM
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we'll be here for you...It's 13 days since my miscarriage and I still feel numb...I think the numbness gets worse with every loss.
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August 16th, 2010, 03:08 PM
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Hugs, I'm so sorry sweetie.
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August 16th, 2010, 03:11 PM
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Lindsey I am so very sorry. I definitely have days where it hits me hard too. We are here for you.
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August 16th, 2010, 03:28 PM
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So sorry..HUGS!
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August 16th, 2010, 03:36 PM
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It is hard cause I just had a friend tell me she is pregnant and due right around my due date and she is scared to death cause her baby is not even a yr old.. I had to fight back tears to tell her that it will all be ok and God never gives us to much we can't handle... I am saying that and wondering why I had to go through this again.. Why some people have to relive it over and over again.. IT IS SO NOT FAIR!!!!!
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August 16th, 2010, 04:26 PM
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 I am so sorry this happened to you again. It is soooo unfair!
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August 16th, 2010, 04:38 PM
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 I'm sorry. It is so hard. I tend to try and hold things in, but I think with this it helped me deal with it by just letting my feelings out. Having a good cry and talking to girlfriends that have had the same experience.
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August 17th, 2010, 07:54 AM
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Your right Lindsey...it isn't fair. I am so sorry you had to go through this again...its so sad. Life is just hard sometimes....I hope and pray for the best for you.
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August 17th, 2010, 10:28 AM
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Lindsey I'm sorry that you had to deal with that on top of the intense pain of your loss right now. It's NOT fair, but in this life there is so much unfair... sometimes they happen for a reason beyond what we can comprehend. I know that over time I've had to accept that there's no acceptable reason, no fathomable reason, no understanding what we've been thru once, twice, three times or more.
I just hope that you can find some peace, the ability to grieve and be strong thru all of this... I can't even tell you how I got thru it because I still go thru it every day in some smal or large way.
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August 17th, 2010, 01:50 PM
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Hugs, Lindsey. I am so sorry you are going through this. There is no explanation for why things happen, and life is just not fair. I hope you lean on all of us when you need to.
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August 17th, 2010, 04:59 PM
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I'm still having my bad days too, tomorrow is two weeks since my D & C, and I'm hoping that I can handle the day okay. I have so many friends and coworkers who are having babies, finding out the sex, etc. It's not been easy for me. I'm glad that I found this board so I can talk to people, even it it's just online
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August 17th, 2010, 10:59 PM
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i'm so sorry too hun!!!! i know how horrible it is!!! we are totally here if you need us!!!
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August 18th, 2010, 08:19 AM
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hi Lindsey,
Hugs hugs... i had a friend too who falls a month before my suppose due date & she cant stop complaining about her husband's insensitivity about taking care of their 1 year old daughter. & her difficulty on her current pregnancy, it really made me sooo sad and MAD, though she's bleeding at least her baby have a strong HB coz with me i did not have any bleeding through 9 weeks but no HB. Whew, what a release!!!
Thanks Ladies!
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