[little.lili]

For having sex without a condom

We're NOT trying to get pregnant RIGHT now, I still need at least a full cycle and Dh and I have decided to try and wait until November to try... (we have a family vacation before then, and it would just be easier on everyone if I wasn't pregnant)...

But we're not DEAD... I really enjoy sex... DUHHH ... And we haven't used condoms in for ever, Dh refuses to go back LOL!!! Ugh...

To make matters worse, I wanted to get on BC, but the Dr wont let me until they look at a lump I have in my breast... Thankfully that's tomorrow, and if everything looks fine... then she will give me the pills... As for the lump, I'm not worried about it.. I've had it looked at before and was told there was nothing that looked dangerous about it...


Ironically we just had sex... AGAIN... After the Dr told Dh like 3 times no sex without condoms

Goodness, what is wrong with us?!?! We seriously can't keep it in our pants for a day?!?!!?




This is so frustrating... I still feel extremely confused about TTC and sex and everything...

[ohnicole]

We also got scolded for not using condoms after our loss, and we just moved so I got a copy of my records, and my doctor wrote "Patient has gone against medical recommendation by refusing to use contraception." Oops

I hope you start feeling less confused soon!

[little.lili]

Originally Posted by ohnicole

We also got scolded for not using condoms after our loss, and we just moved so I got a copy of my records, and my doctor wrote "Patient has gone against medical recommendation by refusing to use contraception." Oops

I hope you start feeling less confused soon!

LOL!!!

Yeah..... I mean... I don't want to go into details... but he finished outside every time... does that count for anything?? LOL!!!!!!!!!

I know it's important to wait for this 1st cycle to pass, and we would like to wait just a bit before giving this another try... but yeah... we like to have sex lol we're terrible at abstinence... and with all this baby fever floating around... it's hard to take birth control seriously...

[Halfbaked]

Ha ha ha... sorry, I don't mean to laugh but you sound like me. Hey, we used the pull and pray method and it worked except that one time. Better odds than the birth control I was on.

[little.lili]

Originally Posted by Halfbaked

Ha ha ha... sorry, I don't mean to laugh but you sound like me. Hey, we used the pull and pray method and it worked except that one time. Better odds than the birth control I was on.

LOL Yeah I laugh at ourselves too... Goodness, we used to be SOOOO careful about BC before we were married, and even before we were TTC... Now I feel like we're being so... thoughtless?

I really feel like part of it is that I'm still kind of in shock from the loss... and I'm not really thinking about our actions... which is bad...

I just need some time to sort things out I guess...

[GoldenTickets]

I guess I can be considered lucky then because my ob said not to worry about protecting. She did originally tell us to wait 6 or 8 weeks, but after looking at my cycles over the last three years (and how irregular they are) she said not to worry about it and we might get a surprise ovulation.

[ldovey83]

I too have done the same thing.. When I was told after my first eptopic to wait a few months we didn't use birth control.. I havn't used condoms since DH and I married and I don't plan on going back to them.. I see it as it is our bodies our decisions.. LOL If you can get it and you are in the mood I say go for it girlfriend..

[little.lili]

Originally Posted by ldovey83

I too have done the same thing.. When I was told after my first eptopic to wait a few months we didn't use birth control.. I havn't used condoms since DH and I married and I don't plan on going back to them.. I see it as it is our bodies our decisions.. LOL If you can get it and you are in the mood I say go for it girlfriend..

LOL!!!!

Oh well... Hopefully we will get on BC pills soon and I can have a little break from thinking so much about any possible pregnancies...