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September 1st, 2010, 07:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Yesterday, at 9w3d, after a tiny bit of spotting and some moderate cramping, I went to the ER as advised by my doctor in light of my history.
I was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage, since my baby had only grown a week since my previous ultrasound at 6w4d, and the heartbeat had stopped 
I'm a mess right now, I have been given meds to take to miscarry at home, as well as pain meds.
I guess I don't really belong here, or won't for awhile, since I'm not going to TTC at least until next April. 3 in a year is just too much.
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September 1st, 2010, 09:01 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss! I've also had 3 losses. Give yourself time to grieve and cry, it's good to let it out. Have you had any testing for multiple miscarriages?
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September 1st, 2010, 09:28 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Tinley
I'm so sorry for your loss! I've also had 3 losses. Give yourself time to grieve and cry, it's good to let it out. Have you had any testing for multiple miscarriages?
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Yes, I have, and I still have more testing to undergo, I started after the 2d loss.
So far, I have positive anti-nuclear antibodies (1:640)
I have PCOS and a LP defect (which we found out shortly after the first loss, since I had undergone testing to figure out why I was taking so long to get pregnant the very cycle I turned out to get pregnant!)
I also have positive antibodies which may or may not indicate a blood clotting disorder, but these aren't as clear-cut as the ANAs were so I'm still awaiting diagnosis.
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September 1st, 2010, 11:11 AM
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I'm sorry for your losses. I'm glad that they are already trying to figure out what's causing the m/c.
I hope the wait to TTC again goes fast.
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September 1st, 2010, 11:19 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. I am hurting for you. You are more than welcome to stay here, we understand your pain.
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September 1st, 2010, 11:55 AM
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I am so so sorry hun.. It is totally not fair.. I am also not trying for a little while as I have had 4 miscarriages in a yr and 3 months.. I wanted to offer you hugs and I am here if you need to talk to anyone..HUGS!!!
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September 1st, 2010, 01:03 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry for your losses. 
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September 1st, 2010, 01:28 PM
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i am so sorry for your loss. I have experienced 4 of them myself so i know how devastated you must be feeling right now. they gave me no answers for why i was miscarrying. i hope you can find some answers! big big hugs to you!
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September 1st, 2010, 01:37 PM
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HUGS.. I am so sorry for your loss and what you are going through.... I have had multiple losses, and know how devistating it is... HUGS.. Please you don't have to feel like you don't belong, we are here for you. You can also stop and see us in the pregnancy loss board...
Pregnancy Loss - JustMommies Message Boards
We are here for you.. HUGS
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September 1st, 2010, 02:35 PM
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I am sorry sorry for your losses. I agree that the ladies here are great.
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September 1st, 2010, 06:03 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Honey, I'm so sorry you have to go thru this. Be strong. You will get your baby. Even if you aren't ttc, you can still vent here. We all know what you are going thru and will be here for you.
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September 1st, 2010, 06:22 PM
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 I'm so sorry for your losses. Don't feel like you have to leave. There are many women here who completely understand. Vent all you need to.
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September 1st, 2010, 06:37 PM
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and T&P going out to you right now. I'm so sorry you're going through this and I hope they find answers and can lead you to a sticky BFP.
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September 2nd, 2010, 02:06 AM
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I'm so sorry for your losses.
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September 2nd, 2010, 02:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 thank you all
I know I can stay here of course. It's awful but I'm sure those who have had several losses will understand I can't even think of getting pregnant again right now. Maybe one day but now the very thought scares me so much
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September 2nd, 2010, 06:43 AM
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I had 2 back-to-back this year, so I know what you are feeling. I am sooo sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you. *hugs*
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September 2nd, 2010, 08:37 AM
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Hugs! I am so sorry for your loss! Please feel free to stay. At the top there is also a place called TTCAL In Limbo 
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