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September 13th, 2010, 09:41 PM
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September 13th, 2010, 09:54 PM
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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September 14th, 2010, 12:18 AM
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Yeah very sad  I would have such a wonderfully round ole belly right now.......
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September 14th, 2010, 05:45 AM
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I cant do it..I dont want to know
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September 14th, 2010, 06:16 AM
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I still get my BabyCenter weekly email updates I am a masochist I guess.
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September 14th, 2010, 06:23 AM
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Very hard to post this.. Especially with my EDD coming next week.
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September 14th, 2010, 07:04 AM
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I never had a ticker for either of mine, but at the idea of looking at it, my mind shuts completely. I guess it's just my way of dealing with the pain - it's better the less I think about it. One would be almost 6 months, and with the other I'd be starting to show my belly and wear maternity clothes... but looking at a ticker....  it's hard to even look at those of you other ladies...
I'm sorry, I know for some people there's a need to remember the angel baby, but for me, this is just too much.
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September 14th, 2010, 07:32 AM
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I'm sorry if it is too much, it's definitely optional. Like allot of ladies I've not kept track but on occasion like Lindsey's post it made me really think about it... I couldn't get over it last night believe you me at how old they might ne and knowing I would be having a babe any day right now has been very torturous.
So sorry if anyone finds it hard it was meNt with the best intentions
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September 14th, 2010, 07:47 AM
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I know it wasn't your intentions Celena  ...Obviously I didn't have to do it, but it's actually something I keep track of in my head...I knew that today I would of been 38 weeks, and I knew that i'd be 15 weeks, and now not only is it September 14th, 1 month till Ella's birthdate, but she also would of been 7 months old had she been born alive...She would of been 8 months on her birthdate ....I was just thinking about this while getting my kids ready this morning...My daughter is getting her braces off today...She got them on right after I found out I was pregnant in Jan, and here she is done with her braces and I would of been exactly 38 weeks today ...I wish it were something I could just forget about.
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September 14th, 2010, 10:24 AM
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I ended up looking. I thought I would have been around 19 weeks. I was right 19 weeks 4 days.
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September 14th, 2010, 10:30 AM
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CJ would be 13 months.
Rose would be 2 weeks old.
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September 14th, 2010, 12:50 PM
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Oh I know Megan  definitely didn't want to invoke any sadness or hurt
Kinda hit a hard spot when sweet Kelly came by and posted yesterday, we were due within a day of each other... I can't believe my edd is only a day or two away. The dr's office told me the 15th.
Like Nicole I still get emails of how far along I am...
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September 14th, 2010, 12:59 PM
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I don't have a ticker, but he/she would be 2 years old.
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September 14th, 2010, 01:06 PM
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I would have a 30 year old son and my daughters would be 4 and 5...
I think of them often and miss them EVERY DAY!!!!
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September 14th, 2010, 02:03 PM
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September 14th, 2010, 03:16 PM
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September 14th, 2010, 05:56 PM
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I have my angel ticker, so it's not like I don't know how long it's been. But it's so different to look at it this way. She'd have started preschool this year...
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September 15th, 2010, 02:50 PM
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September 18th, 2010, 06:39 AM
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I agree, it's so different to look at things this way.... I lurk around my DDC board, and I saw some posts by a particular girl today... I remember when I first got my BFP, I somehow found this website and found the "Am I Pregnant" forum... One of the first posts I saw was from her, posting her HPT. We had taken tests about the same day, and they were the same Wal-Mart tests... For some reason, I've always remembered her.
I saw her ticker today, and knew that I would probably be around that far along too....
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September 18th, 2010, 10:08 AM
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Inspired by Lindsey, let's have a ticker memorial thread (loss)
Lisa 
