[MeganMomof5]

I'm not TTC right now...I'd love to, but for medical reasons it HAS to wait...I don't even want to get pregnant this soon after all my problems because i'm worried it's going to cause me to have another miscarriage...We aren't using birth control, just pull out (sorry for TMI)...it worked for us for years, and I never got pregnant...However I did get pregnant with my son doing that...It was our birth control after he was born too and never did I get pregnant...Well I took an OPK this morning and it's almost positve!!! i'm kind of freaked because I almost wonder if my husband didn't pull out soon enough last night...I've also been having a ton of CM, yesterday and today it was EWCM, but I took an OPK yesterday and it was negative, so I figured it was okay to DTD...I'm sure i'm freaking out over nothing.

[shen7]

Well Megan, I guess it's always a possibility... pull & pray is not exactly foolproof!!... I'd think hard about how important it is for you to prevent, and either get on some kind of BC, or just decide that you're okay if it happens despite pull & pray. After all, the whole theory of getting pg exactly when it's the least convenient, would be working in your favor right now... I'd say it's worth thinking about since you just had this scare. I'm sorry that you're freaked out. I had a similar freakout last cycle, finally got AF, but it also made me want to start TTC right away too.

Whatever you decide... Good luck!!!!

[ohnicole]

Megan, I hope there is nothing to worry about. I do know how easy it easy to start obsessing, though, and I hope you are able to avoid worrying about it too much.

[missy123]

It sounds like you are "safe"... However I know how hard it is not to worry. (hugs)

[MeganMomof5]

Thanks guys...I mean what are the chances i'd get pregnant this one time? I highly doubt it...For a year while I wanted to TTC and my husband didn't, we did pull and pray, and we would DTD at O time and I never got pregnant...I just think back to that one time I did get pregnant with my son...Of course I was 5 years younger and my body was healthy then...I'm going to tell him to get some condoms...It's really hard for me to prevent a pregnancy because I want it so bad, but I also want to be healthy and not lose another baby.

[~Lynda~]

the pull out method worked for us for years!!!! kinda a drag for dh though! try not to worry hun!! what will be, will be! hugs

[JessP]

Sorry you are having to worry. The pull and pray method has worked for us for years. The only time it didn't is when DH forgot to pull . I hope it all works out like you want.

[.:Shortcake:.]

I believe if its meant to happen it will and so I guess if it happens maybe this will be your rainbow baby!?

[Brittanie]

I'm sure you're okay but I think the condoms are a good idea.