[okiliz]

Hello ladies,
Ok so.. I am on CD 20 , 8dpo, I ovulated on CD 11 or 12, had barely brown egg hte cm and lots of it on CD 12 , clear slimy cm on CD 13 that was slightly egg white and from CD 14 on still lots of cm, feel very wet and the cm is creamy but white . Starting CD 17 my CM increased and on CD 18 it turned slightly eggg white mixed with the milky cm .Even more of an increase on CD 18 , still with slight clear egg white mixed with the creamy/milky egg white was only after BM when I wiped . CD 19 I was horribly tired , had a headache,had tons of creamy CM, again with slight egg white after a BM,little twinges in my pelvic area. today is CD 20 about 8DPO, Still the same ammount of CM,again egg white after I went to the bathroom . My cervix is still very high and soft,softer then normal at this stage, or rather what as normal before my MC . I guess my main question is , why am I still having egg white CM if I ovulated already ? Again it is only after I have a BM.. Before my MC when I ovulated, I had egg white about 2 days before, the day of and then it dried up until AF.. It does not itch or burn or smell or anything . I mean I guess it could be semen but it looks clearer and is more slippery . The cycle I got pregnant with the twins, my cervix stayed high and soft the whole time, instead of getting low and hard.. but I lost them:-( Does this kmean iif I am pregnant , I ill lose this baby too ? I kno it is a silly question but I can't help but be scared . Also, even though I know it is to early to test at 8dpo, I did.. and it was a neg... I got a very faint positive at 8 dpo with the twins.. So I can;'t help but be slightly bummed... I have tons of tests( E-bay bidding accident) probably at least 130 . Mixture of clear blue digital,ept digital, FRER generic brand, iCs from early pregnancy tests.com... Which out of those are the most sensitive? when can I test and knwo for sure i AM OUT? Thanks again guys for listening to my rambling !! baby dust to all !!!

[Halfbaked]

You can have EWCM on and off for days after ovulation. Usually, it's more scant though, like what you are describing. You can also have a lot more CM when/if you are pregnant. I had so much CM when I was pregnant with my other kids, I kept thinking I was feeling bleeding and would check every couple of hours. It was always nothing but CM. When I miscarried, I never had that feeling so it was just different. You also can't tell if you are or aren't pg by checking cervical position. It changes a lot in the 2ww and it's only after AF that it really returns to low and closed. Each pregnancy is different so you can't even compare 2 healthy pregnancies, let alone a mc. They just change so much. Also, getting a positive at 8dpo is the exception, not the rule. I read somewhere that it is only like 50% that can test that early and get anything. As for the tests, I would think the IC's are the most sensitive, then the Frer generics, then the ept and clear blue digitals. If you want to test and know for sure you are out, then don't test until AF is late. I know, easier daid than done. I personally would test at 12dpo with fmu then each day until you get a positive or AF comes.

[okiliz]

Thank you for your answer . This is our first cycle trying since we lost the twins and I am just a wreck . One day I say no , no ay that I am PG and then the next I am convinced that I am . We are planning another IUI in November if this month does not work, so it's nto as if it is over if I am not pregnant from this cycle.. I just hate having to take a month off due to hubby's deployment schedule . How dare the federal govt. get in the way of my making a baby LOL but Seriously, I keep telling myself that it won't work but secretly hoping it will ... I am so glad that you guys are here to chat to and ask questions/voice concerns . We are stationed overseas so I don't have family to talk to/lean on and my friends are all stateside.. Which made the MC harder I think and now trying to TTC all over again after fertility treatments and what not... it just gets.. tough.. So thatnks again !!