Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.
We pride ourselves on having the friendliest
and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment
and register
for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers.
If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.
Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!
|
September 17th, 2010, 09:02 AM
|
|
Veteran
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 140
|
|
|
I am 6 weeks 3 days today.. I went in yesterday for them to check my hormone levels and they came back perfect for 6 weeks.. they wanted to see me today to do an ultrasound just to make sure.. the baby is measuring somewhere in the 4 week range with a HR of 94..
the doc would say one positive thing then 5 bad things.. i go back the 27th for another ultrasound and she said if there is no progress by then then they will consider it an abnormal pregnany
They keep telling me to stay calm and not stress out but how in the world am i suppose to stay calm.. I already went through a loss last year. idk if i can deal with another one..
Have any of you ever been through this or have any thoughts?
__________________
|
September 17th, 2010, 02:31 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 13,278
|
|
|
I'm sorry you're going through this. This is the same thing that happened to me this time around. I went in at 6w and the sac was measuring less than 5w, then I went in at 8w and baby was measuring 6w with a h/b of 103. I went back at 9w and baby didn't have a h/b. There could still be hope for you though, there are a lot of women who have this happen who go on to have healthy pregnancies. I truly hope that you are one of them! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
|
September 17th, 2010, 03:03 PM
|
|
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2008
Posts: 10,638
|
|
I'm truly very sorry you're going through this - it is just not fair. I really hope things turn around and your little one makes great progress by your next appt.
|
September 17th, 2010, 03:16 PM
|
|
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2010
Posts: 3,832
|
|
 I'm so sorry you're in so much limbo, it sounds scary...... I will be hoping for you that it turns out to be nothing to worry about. Keep us posted... and here's some sticky, H&H dust:
|
September 17th, 2010, 03:47 PM
|
 |
Mommy to Matthew
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 5,488
|
|
|
I hope your next appt goes well, hon! Is there a reason it's 10 days out? Just can't imagine waiting 10 days to know anything. I will be thinking and praying for you and your little bean!
__________________
Thank you SO MUCH, Chelsea (GraysMama) for my awesome new siggie! Forever Missing Our Angel, Matthew, born still 7/1/10 at 0820. Mommy and Daddy Love You and Miss You, Matthew
|
September 17th, 2010, 04:05 PM
|
 |
Tobi
|
|
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3,613
|
|
|
Im so sorry, waiting and not knowing is such a horrible place to be. Im going to pray for your little one, and your family. Im sorry this is happening to you, I hate it has to happen to anyone. Let us know how you are doing, there are lots of friends here.
|
September 17th, 2010, 04:07 PM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
|
|
|
Hugs! Don't give up hope yet.... maybe you had late implantation! Praying the baby grows by your next appointment.
|
September 20th, 2010, 05:12 AM
|
|
Veteran
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 140
|
|
|
Hopefullmommy~ im not really sure why.. she just said i want to see you back in 7-10 days which would be that friday or that monday.. and of course i wanted friday and she wasnt even gonna be at the office..
So far ladies i dont feel any different... I still feel preg.. this wait is the worst thing
Lori-- i am sorry you went through this.. this is an aweful wait.. sure hope you get a sticky bean soon!!
__________________
|
September 20th, 2010, 05:14 AM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
|
|
|
Still praying for you hun! I'm so sorry your having to go through this. Waiting sucks!!
|
September 20th, 2010, 07:00 AM
|
 |
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 4,944
|
|
|
I am keeping my fingers crossed that everything looks great at your next appointment!
__________________
Thanks, Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for the adorable siggy!
|
September 20th, 2010, 07:17 AM
|
|
Veteran
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 140
|
|
|
thanks yall.. im hoping for good news! i will keep yall posted!
__________________
|
September 20th, 2010, 08:42 AM
|
|
Mega Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 2,946
|
|
|
Praying for you, hun!!!
|
September 20th, 2010, 09:18 AM
|
 |
Proud JM hostess
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
Posts: 5,209
|
|
Honey I'm sorry about your scary appointment!
Not all babies grow the same, same rate and everything so it's possible that the baby's heart *just* started beating within the day or two so that's why it's 95bpm... as well as the size from late implantation and incorrect calculation of ovulation. There's so many factors that can contribute to this phenomenon.
So please until you've had definite confirmation don't think that this little one is "doomed" ok? Easier said than done of course, but you have to take it easy on yourself for now because you honestly don't know which way it will go so for now keep truckin' forward. There's no back peddling.
BIG BIG BIG HUGS honey, I'm sorry for this scary appointment and I hope your doc is 110% right on all the positive things!
|
September 20th, 2010, 09:32 AM
|
 |
Platinum Supermommy
|
|
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 7,700
|
|
|
Oh sweetie I am sorry to hear about the bad appt.. I am with Celena though.. Don't give up and think your little one is doomed.. I have seen women who it says they are off on their dates and then the next appt they were right on target.. IT could be the positioning and what not.. Hang in there.. The waiting is never easy.. HUGS
__________________
 Thanks Katie for the siggy!
MY Angels: Angelbean5-28-09 Stickybean8-13-09 SweetAngel6-1-10 Raindrop8-13-10
[/url]
|
September 21st, 2010, 05:16 AM
|
 |
First-time Mommy to Jake
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: NY
Posts: 809
|
|
|
It's just not fair to have to wait and worry! I am so sorry!!!!!!! mindless TV helps!!!!! The ladies are right tho, don't give up hope. It's so early on in the development, your baby bean could be growing stronger by the second right now.
|
September 21st, 2010, 06:52 AM
|
 |
Super Mommy
|
|
Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 805
|
|
When I went in for my first apt shoulda been 6weeks and they did not see a baby in the sac, went in a week later and baby was measuring 6weeks and hb was 120 went in two weeks later and baby was measuring a week ahead, where it shoulda been from beginning. Keep hope!!!! Sometimes, babies can grow at different rates and not all babies measure the same!  with Celena also!!!
|
| Topic Tools |
Search this Topic |
|
|
|
| Display Modes |
Linear Mode
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:24 AM.
|